Masturbation question???

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Doodler145
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Masturbation question???

Unread post by Doodler145 »

Hi, so I have been masturbating for around a year now, and everything has been fine so far. I have only ever used my clitoris for masturbation as it’s the only thing that works for me. It took me awhile to get the hang of it but when I do masturbate and have an orgasm I never ejaculate or even squirt. I do get wet but that’s all that happens. Is this normal, or are there other ways to masturbate that make you ejaculate???
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Re: Masturbation question???

Unread post by Michaela »

Hi Doodler145 and welcome to the Scarleteen Boards!

Everything you described is perfectly normal. Ejaculation (also called squirting) is not something that people with vulvas tend to have a lot of control over. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. We have an article that goes into more depth (Squirt: On Ejaculation) but, in short, ejaculation is linked to g-spot stimulation and internal and external clitoris stimulation currently---but there is still more research that is needed. Some people find relaxing and bearing down when close to orgasm can lead to ejaculation, but, as I said before some people also never experience squirting or control over it. If you are curious about exploring it more take a look at that article and we can help clarify further questions it brings up for you.
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Re: Masturbation question???

Unread post by Doodler145 »

Thank-you that helps a lot :)
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Re: Masturbation question???

Unread post by Mo »

Great, glad that was helpful for you!
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