touching glands in masturbation (male)

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touching glands in masturbation (male)

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I recently realized that the time I last in masturbation when I touch the glands and when I don’t are very different. Is it possible to have PE when touching the glands but not when masturbating in other ways and how can I fix this?
I’m circumcised so when I do it, I’m not able to last as much as I do when masturbating (no glands involved)
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Re: touching glands in masturbation (male)

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Hi Thegoose1,

It's pretty common for people to have different experiences of masturbation depending on what part of the their genitals they stimulate, so the fact that you reach orgasm sooner when touching the glans makes a lot of sense.

In terms of premature ejaculation (I'm assuming that's what PE stands for here, but please correct me if I'm wrong), it may help to know that on average, once genital stimulation starts, people with penises tend to reach orgasm in less than three minutes, so a lot of what people think of as premature is well within that average. However, if you want to delay ejaculation and make masturbation last longer, we go over some techniques for that here: A problem with "premature" ejaculation...maybe isn't premature ejaculation..
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