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I am 15 years old, I have tried masturbating multiple times. First, I start buy putting on a porn video to help get myself in the mood, then I begin rubbing my clit. It feels really good, and I am pleased. But after 2-3 minutes I feel this pleasured feeling more of a tingle down there and as I keep rubbing I then feel nothing. Its like this feeling was the finish line and now im done. After about 30 minutes, its like a reset and I will try to masturbate again, it begins to work again and feels good, and after a few minutes I hit my climax and then its over. When I try to keep going I dont feel anything. What does this mean? How can I get my masturbation to last longer?

Hi roxxie.008

Welcome to the boards!

This is a pretty common experience when you start masturbating - it can take a while to tune into what feels good and build up how intense those good feelings are.

That feeling of being pleased, and then feeling done is probably your orgasm. It's common after you orgasm to want a pause before getting turned on and going again. If you want to draw out how long it takes to get there, then there are two things I'd suggest to start with. First, you can allow yourself to take longer to build up - porn + clit is high intensity to start with, so maybe try something less intense to begin with? The other thing you can do is start paying more attention to how you feel just before that tingly, "done" feeling, and see if you can change what you're doing so you don't tip over the edge so soon. How does that sound?

We've got a bit more info about masturbation right here if you're interested:

Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation