i dont feel anything when orgasming anymore :(

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i dont feel anything when orgasming anymore :(

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hi there,
i feel a little awkward asking about this as I feel this site is dedicated to younger teens than I but I’ve looked up my problem and still no answers!

So, I’ve seem to lost the feeling when I orgasm? Like the actual release, my clit doesn’t go numb or anything I just don’t feel anything when I orgasm and only know when I have because I feel my muscles contract. It makes me feel quite down because I don’t enjoy masturbating anymore really- I just do it when I’m horny and can’t focus lol. I’m not trying hard to orgasm because I can quite easily, I just can’t feel it anymore. Its been like this for a couple of weeks, could it be like an actual problem? Do you think my pelvic floor muscles have suddenly become a lot weaker? Or does that haven't any correlation. I appreciate any help or advice you can give - It makes me really sad that I cant experience what I used to.
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Re: i dont feel anything when orgasming anymore :(

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi crystalsandcats,

It's pretty common for orgasms to vary in intensity for a given person, but if you're noticing this happening every time there might be something else up. Have there been any big changes in your life recently, like a big shift at work/school, new medication, things like that? And when you masturbate, are you very turned on mentally and very into a fantasy or piece of media while you're doing it?
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