Okay, so one of my friends was telling me that one of his own friends (who goes to a different school, we have only two schools in our town) was asking about me, saying, if I was interested In a relationship. A few hours later I start talking to this person to find out who they were and how they know me (they knew me from my friend). Turns out they were just wondering if I wanted a one night stand, since there aren't many other guys who have sex with guys in our town. I said I don't think so.
Part of me wants to do it, but another part of me is scared that I'll get in trouble or that If I do say yes, I won't like my crush anymore. Also I'm worried whether or not this is safe in the first place. I have never had sex before, but that's why I want to do it, but also don't want to do it at the same time (I want to experience what it's like, but I feel like I'm doing something wrong if I'm not doing If I do with a long time partner. I've also never been in a romantic relationship either)
and so:
Should I be waiting for a long time partner before having sex? Would the one night stand be dangerous? Is it unethical for me to be wanting to do something like this? Should I wait until I've had sex before doing something like this? Am I betraying my parents? Do I actually have no interest in my crush if I have sex with someone else?
I'm not going to give a response to the guy for a while, but I would really appreciate advice on this.