I know what I did wasn't wrong but now that I know the truth I feel like I should have known better. I had sex with a family friend, I barely knew him but he was the only one in this group that was my age and we hanged out together for a few days and on day three I had sex with him. I am currently not in a relationship, I knew he was going to be just a one-time thing, but I felt like it was okay because I liked him and he liked me and we both knew we were only having fun together.
What I never did ask was that if he was in a relationship. I never did ask if he had a girlfriend. And the way that we were playing together for those few days I thought that that he was in no relationship at all.
I look at his Facebook page yesterday and I found photos of him and his girlfriend. She is in a relationship with her, and there are a couple photos that were added after him and I had sex together.
Should I feel used? Should I be mad? Should I go against him and tell his girlfriend that I had sex with him? Should I be mad at myself for not asking if he was in a relationship?
I'm not happy. I know it was a one-time thing and I know I was okay with what I did at the time, but in my heart I believe that he cheated on his girlfriend and his girlfriend should know the truth.
Am I taking this way out of proportion?
Another thing I wasn't happy with was when he said he didn't like using a condom and when he told me that skin to skin felt better. I always carry a condom on me for those just in case moments, but he tried to act like he didn't like it. It nearly killed the moment but got we made it work. He isn't the first boy who tried that with me, but in my mind I believe that the girl should decide what's right and not the boy. The girl is the one who gets pregnant so the girl should take control.
Sorry for making this such a long story. I'm venting is when I'm doing! I'm mad but I'm lost knowing that I didn't really ask him the right questions.
But should I tell his girlfriend about this? Should I message her without her knowing who I am to tell her what her boyfriend did?