Hi,
Recently I've gotten into my first relationship (hers too), and it's amazing. Recently, we've started getting a bit touchy and cuddly, and I like it a lot, but I keep getting an erection when we do. I know erections are normal and that it's okay to have them, but I always feel like I have to keep it hidden. It's probably internalized shame, but still, I don't want her to see.
I don't want to have sex just yet, and I'm sure she doesn't either, so I'm afraid it'll scare her away if she realises I have an erection when we hug or cuddle.
I'm not sure how to go about discussing this with her. It might also be too early (~a month) for a discussion like that, but I also want to promote honesty and transparency in our relationship.
Some advice would be much appreciated.