Hi, I'm an 18 year old queer teen and I discovered that I was also attracted to girls/people belonging to other genders and started identifying as bisexual last year! That said, I figured out how to masturbate via clitoral stimulation and it feels really good! But when I try using my fingers for penetrative masturbation it really just felt very uncomfortable and not pleasurable. Is this because I amn't doing it right? Or is this normal?
Also the idea of having sex with a guy (especially penetrative sex) just makes me super uncomfortable, and I'm not quite sure what this says about my sexuality although I do think I'm attracted to guys and have had crushes on them before. Do you think I shouldn't worry about trying to find a specific label and just broadly identify as bi/queer? Or does this mean I'm probably sapphic-aligned?