Hi Nia Ray,
My reflex would be to answer your question with: "I don't know, you tell me." I think what I've noticed about users who ask questions about their sexuality is that they attempt to apply their behavior to a set definition. Unfortunately, however, we can't diagnose you with lesbianism. I think what might yield a better path of exploration for you would be to step away from this idea of trying to fit into a label and instead think about what you want
; what feels right/good. What does it mean to you
to be a lesbian, and does that definition feel like a good word to describe how you feel? Which identity feels like the right one to use when you go about navigating romance/sex/sensuality?
Maybe this will help as well: Am I a Lesbian?