Hi Scarleteen,
I’ll cut to the chase. Boyfriend and I had vaginal sex today. I’m on the pill, he wore a condom and pulled out. The condom was a thin one we wanted to try if that helps.
Without getting too into the details, we were in doggy and he had finished. Apparently, he saw something on my back that he thought was ejaculate, but after feeling it may have been the lubricant we used pooled and mixed with dead skin or whatever. Nonetheless he told me and wanted me to take the Plan B we had on hand just to be safe.
It’s been a few hours, I took the Plan B. He’s still worried though, and I wish I knew how to calm him down. Usually I’m the one freaking out. Don’t get me wrong, I have my concerns, but we essentially used 4 methods of birth control. He’s not usually a worried person, and I’m also autistic, so I just don’t really know how to support him in this specific situation. Got any ideas?
Thanks.