Heather wrote:Hey there.
Sexual curiosity is normal, in that it's something most people have. It's also common for what people are sexually curious about to be all over the map, and curiosity about or interest in things like role play, including with hierarchy, and sensation or bondage, is not at all unusual.
There's no one right age for people to be sexual or not with themselves or with partners: development isn't so much based in years as in other things. That said, at 13, if you're living in a home where talking to parents about sex is out of the question, and you feel like you haven't even begun to find the kind of information you need AND it's a pandemic, to boot, then for sure, I think it's safe to say that in your circumstances, you're clearly at the very start of looking down this road, and probably not quite ready to go down it in a safe way yet, you know? There's just going to be a lot more you need to even consider your choices first, let alone make them.
But you're here now, so you at least have found one place where you can start getting some information to begin getting a better sense of things. Can I ask what you've looked at on the site here so far? What kinds of conversations have you and your girlfriend had about sexual readiness for both of you in general? What's it like for you two in terms of even having a relationship right now: do both of your parents know about your relationship? Are they accepting? What's your scoop with contact right now given COVID, and what are your family rules with basic contact and all that at the moment?
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