Well that's great! Hey, Heather, your stated sexuality is kind of offensive to me. KIND OF! Note for the beginning, I use the term gay alot. When I say gay, I really just mean people who are attracted to the same gender, this could be bi, pan or many other things. I put a lot of thought into whether this really offended me or not, and how awful of a person it make me. So time for some hypocrisy! The sexual identify you list on your profile is queery-queer-queer. Its fantastic that your so comfortable with your sexual identity that you feel that way! I love how you take things like that so lightly! However, not all of us feel that way. I'm sure you heard the term "flaming" when it comes to gayness. Its an idea that I particularly hate and I feel like your perpetuating, sort of. This concept that most or all gay people are out their in their rainbow suspenders, and cross dressing ensembles. It not only confused trans people with gay people, and just cross dressers with gay people. I hate it. It also shows a side of some gay people that I don't like, however, have learned to tolerate because it's a totally fine thing and it really shouldn't upset me. I hate gay pride. I don't like it on a moral of personal level. Not because I don't like people being proud of who they are, but because it makes people like me look bad. I live in a very politically right wing town. I personally, associate with the republican party on most issues, wear jeans and flannel, and really like the idea of getting off inside of a man, and having other men inside of me. So despite all those things other things that they should like, when people find out I'm pansexual, there's an immediate hatred of me because I'm "like them." Its so hard ya know, and ofc, me being me, decides to fight hate with hate, I'm working on it tho. I think its great that your proud of who you are! I think it's great that you don't feel like you have to hide it! I just don't like that you kinda made it this, draw attention to myself, haha, funny, look at me sort of thing. Queer would have been totally fine. Queery-queer-queer kind of upset me. However, I make jokes out of myself all the time, so I guess I have no place to talk. So all I can do is ask you this, Heather. When you think really long and really hard about calling yourself queery-queer-queer, do you think that's really appropriate and not offensive. if so, then I'll learn to be okay with it, if not, please seriously consider giving it a more serious title. Sorry if that was long and rambling and contradicts itself alot. I still really appreciate you Heather, its just kind of upsetting.
I hate the word homophobia. It's not a phobia. You're not scared. You're an asshole.