Hey there, Sky.
We're not responsible for your feelings or thoughts, but our intent in posting what we did certainly was not about trying to cultivate sadness or anxiety for you. Rather, our intent was to let you know what we know about the kind of situation and responses you were posting, and to do our best to give you information that can help you keep yourself safe and best avoid
any kind of harm.
People can be nice to us and yet still not have our best interests at heart, or still put us in unsafe situations. Right now, during the pandemic, a new sexual partner or any kind of intimate physical contact with someone new is itself highly risky for a health standpoint, so again, we'd strongly advise you reconsider (and recognize that it's also a red flag right now for people to be moving this fast in the midst of a global pandemic). But in the event you don't, by all means, I hope that the least you can both do is use the basic protections we have for new partners with STIs and other health risks.
I am a bit concerned that this post feels a lot like where we started when you were posting way back when. As I've talked about in the past in a similar scenario, I feel uncomfortable with having to make big pushes to try and keep you from taking big risks. You've come and asked us for safety advice, and we've given it to you. I understand that you don't like what we've said, but I don't feel good about arguing with you about it -- after all, your choices are yours to make.
I just don’t understand how you are all saying sti, if the person is just with me there is none right? I’m very confused on this stuff and then I know that if I have a cut or something I can’t get one but it’s so confusing I have no idea. I don’t even know what cum feels like so he could in me and I wouldn’t know
It did sound up there like you were saying you didn't know about safer sex basics and how it all works, so I'm going to leave you a couple links to educate yourself more and then leave you to making what choices for yourself you're going to. Because we care about you, I of course hope that you can make them with your well-being and health your top priority. <3
• All the Barriers! All the Time!
• Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?
• Safe, Sound & Sexy: A Safer Sex How-To
• Casual...Cool? Making Choices About Casual Sex