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Unread postby lovelylavender » Thu Mar 19, 2020 4:40 pm

For a while I've considered myself as bisexual. Until recently I've never had a problem with it. Now as time has been going by I'm not sure I like boys. I've never been in a relationship with either genders but I don't know if that really matters or not. In general I don't know how to figure out my sexuality and if I just like girls or if I actually do like boys and girls.

While yes I do think boys are cute and have previously thought about being in a relationship with one, not I just can't really imagine it. With a girl I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with one, kissing one, and everything but when I think about kissing a boy it just doesn't seem that appealing to me.

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Re: Sexuality

Unread postby Johanna » Thu Mar 19, 2020 7:41 pm

Hi lovelylavender,

figuring out sexuality and attraction can be a daunting experience! I'm glad you're feeling comfortable sharing your thoughts here. I don't see any specific questions in your post, but whenever you do have a question, feel free to ask! For now, I'm just going to give you the links to some articles you might find interesting: ... r_everyone ... uestioning ... ity_primer
"The question is not who will let me, but who is going to stop me." - Ayn Rand

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