How to flirt
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wolfcub
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How to flirt
I'm on the spectrum and have almost no dating experience. I'm trying to get a grasp on flirting with girls. I've seen what not to do (use pick up lines, touch them out of nowhere, etc.) that stuff is obvious to me. I just don't know how, when and where to do it that doesn't make me seem like a creep. I need to know; how the f*** do I flirt (online and IRL) and what are some concepts to keep in mind when I do? Please respond because this is frustrating me to no end!
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Amanda F
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Re: How to flirt
Hi wolfcub,
We've got several articles about dating on the spectrum and about flirting!
How Do I Tell a Date I'm Autistic? This one also includes some info about online dating, specifically.
Communication includes not just flirting but also becoming aware of and expressing your needs: Expressing Your Needs Isn’t Asking Somebody For “Favors”
This article talks about how to flirt, in general: I'm In the (Friend) Zone
horriblegoose responded to your question about how to flirt in another thread, which was good advice. Can you check out these articles and let me know what questions you have from there?
We've got several articles about dating on the spectrum and about flirting!
How Do I Tell a Date I'm Autistic? This one also includes some info about online dating, specifically.
Communication includes not just flirting but also becoming aware of and expressing your needs: Expressing Your Needs Isn’t Asking Somebody For “Favors”
This article talks about how to flirt, in general: I'm In the (Friend) Zone
horriblegoose responded to your question about how to flirt in another thread, which was good advice. Can you check out these articles and let me know what questions you have from there?