I remember crushing on girls only a few times when I was in high school. Sure, it was probably just infatuation and it never went anywhere, but I guess most crushes are like that. It was something. I didn't know how to move off of it at the time but at least I had a starting point. Even then, it only occurred every few years or so.
Nowadays I barely feel it at all. Every I thought I had found that feeling again when I went to a college party. It was my first time drinking and I didn't even get through one quarter of my first bottle the entire night (I guess I just couldn't force myself to handle the taste). My feelings singled out one girl among them, and like always, I just watched her from afar.
I let myself believe I was taking an interest in her but once the quarantine hit I realized I wasn't at all. I guess it was kind of stupid in hindsight but it made me realize just how rare it is for me to have a crush or feel infatuated or whatever you want to call it. Some may say that's a good thing, but I find being forced to spend literal years with nothing happening absolutely degrading. I looked online and people complain that they only really feel that way every couple of months. Oh yeah, sure, you have it real rough, buddy.
Am I really better off this way? Because I don't know anymore