Glad to hear that the reply helped! I would recommend reading the articles if you are yet to already, they explore further the ideas that one kind of sex isn't better than the other, and that for most humans, we need multiple forms of stimulation to feel pleasure.
Also if you're referring to 'fingering' from the perspective of being someone with a vulva and vagina, the articles explains why for most people with those body parts, the sensation of having something (be it a penis or a finger or something else) in the vaginal canal
on its own is generally not the most pleasurable thing, if at all, because of how the anatomy is actually set up. The articles then go into some of the other kinds of touch that folks with those body parts can explore.
If the articles bring up any questions or curiosities you'd like to ask, please feel free to ask us here on this thread or in our other direct services