Pregnancy Scare

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Pregnancy Scare

Unread post by shemychan »

On april 12 My boyfriend fingers me and also he did oral sex with it. He did not ejaculate or touched his penis when he fingers me. Then after that I changed my underwear and wash my vagina because somehow it is painful.  Then after that he asked me to do an oral sex, so I did it to him and i also ejaculate him using my hands then he cum into a tissue so i did not get any of his semen on my hand but i think i have some pre cum like clear stuff. Then immediately i go to the restroom to wash my hands with soap and i put some rubbing alcohol so many times. I did not touch my vagina after that as i put so much alcohol from time to time and we did not touch each other again. On april 22 He dry hump on me with our clothes on. He has 2 underwear and a short and i have my underwear and short. Its just for minutes and he did not ejaculate but i think there is small amount of pre cum thats been released on him on his underwear but he said he is not wet or soaked of semen like only small amount of precum and no ejaculation. We did not have vaginal sex, is there a chance i could get pregnant? Im scared. I do not need to take any pills right? And there is no chance of pregnancy?
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Re: Pregnancy Scare

Unread post by Urna »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion ( ... _companion)
For help with anxiety: ... _resources
For related help and information at Scarleteen:
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