Is masturbation like I see in porn real? like I know it's not "real" but can it be similar? Because in porn girls always like do it super fast and hard for like 10s of minutes on end and from their voices it sounds like they're having so much extreme pleasure and like they're right on the edge.
i know they're probably exaggerating but like when I masturbate it's nothing close to that. It's kinda more like i get aroused which takes a couple minutes, and then i go at it slowly, only really speeding up at the last like 30 seconds or so where it feels really good and I orgasm. But for most of the time it just feels like decently good lol, but nothing groundbreaking.
is this normal or is there something wrong with my body? it's hard for me to not compare myself to porn even though I tell myself it's exaggerated, because they always seem to be right on the edge with those extremely pleasurable feelings for so so long, it's like i wanna achieve that but it might not be possible?
thx so much