Hey there, polarbear. Welcome to the boards.
I'd like to ask some clarifying questions to make sure I understand the situation first. I hope that's okay.
When you say you don't experience any pleasure, can you say a bit more about what you mean by that? Pleasure is a pretty broad term that means a feeling of enjoyment and satisfaction. In the context of sex, pleasure can be multifacted: it can be emotional, physical, intellectual, social, the works. It can be all those things at once, b ut we might not feel as much pleasure in one arena as another at a given time or in a given situation, or even in every sexual situation so far in life.
You say you have been interested and intrigued: I read that to mean you feel curious. It sounds like you've felt curious enough to try a bunch of things -- has any of that trying been pleasureable for you in any way? Has any of it been UNpleasant?
Is this about things just feeling like they leave you flat or about things bothering you?
Also, when you do this sexual exploration, are you starting from a place where you feel sexually excited and aroused, or is it more (or all) of an intellectual curiosity?
Do the meds you take have sexual side effects as listed side effects? You are focusing on them as the culprit, and they could be, but I'd not assume that they must be. But I would be curious about what any potential sexual side effects of them are listed as, for sure.
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