Hi Starsnsloths,
This is a really interesting question! I'm sure other folks will have additional recommendations, but I find this mix is a good starting place:
https://www.scarleteen.com/blog/heather ... munication. Lizzo and Janelle Monae's music are also places where there's a lot of positive representation of sexual desire.
I haven't seen it myself, by I've also heard good things about the show Sex Education when it comes to representing a variety of sexualities in a positive, realistic light, so it may be worth checking that out as well.