Thank you for the long and great answer and explanation! Sometimes I just need a new perspective of a problem to see that it's actually not in fact even a problem.
You really helped me ease those unreasonable worries (and the Don't panic reference was helpful too
Every day I see how much I still have to unlearn, learn and understand about myself, people and the world. It's just so much and I won't ever know everything and maybe even not enough but I'm so grateful to this place for an immense help with the learning and understanding of many important aspects of life. (I say its so much to learn but on a second thought it all comes to just a few things like - everyone is expert on their own body, feeling and experiences.)
And the more I learn the more aware I am of how much the society and the world has yet to learn and change. There is still so much hate and ignorance present in so many forms. Politicians and other people with power argue that their hands are tied that there is a pandemic and a war and not enough money to make any changes and people's life better. But so much good could be done and so many people could be happier without money but rather just by opening our eyes and hearts for diversity, other people's stories and feelings and for the possibility of change. I feel like so much could be different if those in power who can make their voices be heard did just this one small change in their thinking (everyone would benefit from this not just those who are now seen as different). It seems so easy but almost impossible at the same time. And I wish that one day I'll learn enough and get stronger to be able to be part, however small, of this potential change for the better, because I believe it's possible.
Sorry, got carried away a little. I guess I'm just in this 'overidealistic, overinvested, not-understanding-all-consequences' stage of life, lol.
Anyway, back to the topic and me personally. I'm probably just really caught up in being afraid of what people around me might think or say that I forget to check what I feel. So rethinking some ideas like you suggested would probably be really helpful. Lately I'm slowly trying to learn to recognise and step away from all these prejudices and assumptions especially about gender, because right now it's just stressing me out and I hope that one day I'll be stronger or will get away from those people whose judgement I fear so much and freely and on my own figure out who I am and maybe even discovering I don't even need to know it along the way.
I have just one hormones related question - is there some scientific explanation to why might some changes in them, for instance during menstrual cycle or menopause, cause changes in mood? Sorry if there is no answer to this.
And if you'd like to talk about anything more or had some other resources to share, I'd be happy to learn more as I find all of this really interesting