I’m in love with two girls at the same time online - what to do?

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Re: I’m in love with two girls at the same time online - what to do?

Unread postby Sam W » Tue Dec 15, 2020 10:50 am

This may be an odd question, but do you feel like you ever got guidance about how to differentiate between a crush or other strong romantic feelings and an obsession?

Too, what do you want to happen with the California girl? Do you want to keep up a friendship? Explore, in the future, the possibility of a romantic relationship? Something else?

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Re: I’m in love with two girls at the same time online - what to do?

Unread postby Sabine » Tue Dec 15, 2020 11:16 am

Sam W wrote:This may be an odd question, but do you feel like you ever got guidance about how to differentiate between a crush or other strong romantic feelings and an obsession?

Too, what do you want to happen with the California girl? Do you want to keep up a friendship? Explore, in the future, the possibility of a romantic relationship? Something else?



I don’t know. Sometimes its strong for me and it blurs the line for be because it’s my OCD. In fact, it’s due to my OCD, along with no one guiding me on my gayness that may have exacerbated my crush on Kate Beckinsale.

I am calling it a “friendship” and “friends” because thats what my parents tell me and that I haven’t met them, but we are clearly more involved with them might as well be romantic. So, I don’t know, we don’t have a label. We don’t put a label on it and I like it.


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