I am in my first relationship ever at the moment and it's going great. I love her and we're happy and stuff is good, generally. But I feel like we don't really click sometimes? I'm really touchy and like, almost overbearing, and I feel like it's just too much for her. She's never said that, or even asked me to stop touching her, I'm just kind of insecure. I talk a lot, too, and I (again, without evidence) feel like I get on her nerves a lot. And sometimes I feel like I'm being pushy, but I'm also not sure if she's just shy? If something was clearly off I would stop, of course, but it's been almost ten months and we haven't even kissed (which if she's uncomfortable with it that's fine, of course, but it seems like we're both just scared) and I feel like we aren't really making any headway with like... anything. I know my feelings are important but I don't want to base all of our intimacy on my insecurities. I know this is mostly a communication issue and I'm wondering how I should bring it up. We aren't long distance or anything, but we write each other letters sometimes. Could that be a good way to do it, or should I have this conversation in person? I also don't want to hurt her feelings, but how delicate can/should I be and still get my point across? Thanks!