This is a follow up to How to Tell a Bad Texter Likes You:
I want to tell my crush I love her and would like to date her, but more importantly meet her when I come back to the USA. I want to try to use Scarleteen’s tips on asking her whether that is doable to date her or not, but at the same time, she takes a long time to reply to messages, like 3 weeks last time in between from my last message
since she last messaged me on a dating app. Its been nearly 4 weeks since she last messaged me on Instagram. I don’t want to bother her nor obsess about her too much. However, she said one time that I shouldn’t apologize and that she said she doesn’t answer her phone and apologized twice for going MIA (and for not answering) and says that she doesn’t answer her phone that often. She usually responds in detail, asks questions about me, loves the graffiti pics I send to her and appreciates and thanked me for the sweet messages I send to her.
So, I don’t know what to do anymore. I am worried that she is not liking me back and I will push her further away, but I really want to tell her my feelings and want to know hers. I don’t want to overwhelm her, even though she said she doesn’t mind it.
Edit: She saw my social media story recently and that may have been a sign, but also she created a new profile on her dating site after deleting one again (she matched with me twice, the first time when she initially created it and the second time when create a nee one, so that must be a sign too?) Idk what to think, but I want to know how get signals that she wants to be either friends or something more from her and to express feelings.
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on Thu May 21, 2020 7:58 am, edited 1 time in total.