So, I can't seem to be able to move on from this one thing that happened to my friend and now I'm trying to process it, I don't even know how I feel about it to be honest.
So when my friend was 19 he talked to a man in his 40s to come pick him up and have a hookup at this man's place. The thing is, my friend is bi and still in the closet, therefore he told no one where he was going to, with whom, in a not so public place and told this man generally where he lives. They met on a dating app btw.
He(my friend) didn't go to this stranger house in the end(thank heavens), because he got scared by the stuff this man wanted to perform on him, like fisting and peeing on him, not only that but this man got angry when my friend said no to those things.
This whole story makes my blood run cold in my veins and my friend decision is still puzzling me, like he told me he was horny and that's why he didn't think things through but idk, he was horny countless times before this incident but he never initiated anything ,not only that but he never tried anything ever since. I have so many questions about this whole thing, like from all the people on that app, why have a hookup with someone twice your age, like that age gap is a huge
red flag to me, the man picking him up is another red flag, going to his place is again another red flag, that he didn't tell absolutely no soul about it.
How could my friend not
see how dangerous this whole thing was from the get go? Like while listening to him, all i could hear was
Phew, I really needed to get it off my chest.