Hey! I got a few questions about anal for men. My tactic right now is to first use a water bottle to douche, shower throughly, and then when i'm sure there nothing, I use a condom, lube, and my fingers. I start with two and work my way up to three and then I go for it. Over all, I'm just conflicted. On the internet I read so much about anal orgasms and I want to feel it. When I do it my self, it get to a point where it feels really good but in order to feel that escalation of pleasure I have to go really hard. This causes a lot of pressure in my penis (which isn't necessarily bad just an observation) and I feel like I'm close but no matter how long I do it, or how hard I go, it never comes. I alway have to finish my self of by massaging my penis. It feels amazing still but I once its done, its done. It's still epic, but I'm drawn to the idea of a non-assisted anal orgasm that can occur multiple times. Just for insight, I usually just do this while laying on my back with pillows supporting me and my legs spread. One video I saw of a non assisted orgasm had his legs closed and his penis tucked under the legs ad he massaged his anus. I thought he might have achieved the non assisted orgasm because of the pressure of being tucked but I just find it difficult to use my hands from that angle. Anyway, I love to talk back and forth about this and see if we can find a solution. Also, I'm a heterosexual male 18 year old that has no access to really buy toys so I gotta work with what I've got. I have tried using a bubble wand before which wasn't awful just very straight and is only good for slower stuff but from what I notice faster and hard works better... but what do I know. Thats why I'm here to ask for professional advice.
(ps I'd love to hear from some personal experiences related to this if you can provide that because I thought it might be cool to know if someone is on the same boat )