I’m a lesbian. When I masturbate, I like to see pictures of or imagine nude (or semi-nude) women, which arouses me a lot and can bring me to orgasm.
But when I think about having sex with a woman, it doesn’t really turn me on. It’s nice to think about, but it’s more of a ‘fluffy thought’ rather than a sexual one. In the end I would just think about...cuddling. ((Which makes me feel lonely instead of aroused, lol ))
I’ve never had sex with anyone. And I really want to, someday. But since imagining sexual interaction with women doesn’t arouse me that much, I’m a little worried that I won’t like sex in real life either. ><
What can I do to alleviate this worry, and to ‘like sex’, if at all?