Hello cherryrain!
I understand that distracting yourself from the libido spike doesn't really work. Do the extremely detailed fantasies stress you out as well, maybe because they eat up large chunks of your day that you'd rather be using for something else? Are they ever simply enjoyable? Also, have you considered doing things like reading erotic fiction, or erotic fanfiction (if you're into any fandoms) during these spikes? It helps to have things to channel horniness into.
As for your list of masturbation options: my first question is whether you use any sort of lube. I noticed that you used the phrase "dry orgasm", which is honestly a very common kind of orgasm for people with vaginas. Have you ejaculated during orgasm in the past, or "squirted"? Was that more pleasurable for you? If yes, then what was different about those masturbation sessions? Here's an
article that I think might give you more ideas as to how to masturbate, although that is not the only way to deal with libido spikes, for sure. I'm also quoting from another
article that we have on here to highlight some more options for people with vaginas:-
"With fingers, rubbing, pinching, massaging, or tapping the external genitals (such as the clitoris or labia) and/or inside the internal genitals, such as the vagina or rectum
With general stimulus to the whole genital area, such as by squeezing thighs together rhythmically, by “humping” a pillow, or by sitting or leaning on a vibrating object, such as a washing machine
With objects or items for vibration, such as by applying a water source (like a shower or water jet), vibrator, or massager to the clitoris or vulva as a whole
With objects for vaginal or anal entry (and usually with lubricant), such as dildos or other safe and similar objects"
Have you tried vibrators, btw? If your being under age or something else is preventing you from sourcing one, take a look at this article on
DIY sex toys.
Let us know if any of that helped!