Painful Masturbation

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Erikabuckland
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Painful Masturbation

Unread postby Erikabuckland » Sat Sep 26, 2020 10:50 pm

I’m 15 years old and Every time I masturbait I feel so uncomfortable, and I feel pressure that hurts. Anyone know why it hurts to finger my self?

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Re: Painful Masturbation

Unread postby Sam W » Mon Sep 28, 2020 7:38 am

Hi Erikabuckland,

Masturbation can be painful or uncomfortable for a number of reasons, but the most common ones are not using enough lube, being tense or anxious, or not being quite aroused enough for insertion of fingers to feel comfortable. Do any of those sound like they apply to you?

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Re: Painful Masturbation

Unread postby Melamyl » Mon Oct 12, 2020 8:34 pm

I've had it before when masturbation was new to me(back in high school). It's funny because my bestfriend gave me the idea of using lube and I tried to get my parent's lube sneakily just to get my hands on one. It worked for me so I'm sure it will work to you too. :)


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