I have been chatting with this boy since March, we did get together a few times but never any sexual play. Couple weeks ago and we tried to have sex, and he is on the larger side, not THAT big, but a big plus from the other two boys I have been with. He is very kind and considerate and patient, but any kind of attempted sex is uncomfortable and frustrating and a little painful. TONS of lube and as much forplay as we can get in with the available time we have, but for me I have had no luck.
What is really frustrating is that I would prefer having sex with one of my two EX's instead, at least sex was easy and comfortable and not a hassle. I am not going to tell him this, but this is what I start thinking about when we try and have sex together.
And I have watched some porn, and you see these girls take a large size with no problem. HOW DO THEY DO THIS?!?! Is it all just experience? DO they all take yoga classes??
Either way I don't understand why bigger is better.