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Paul
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by Paul » Thu Jul 09, 2020 2:55 pm
I messaged a girl and asked her if she wanted to hookup and she turned me down. I am having a hard processing this.
Sam W
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by Sam W » Fri Jul 10, 2020 7:38 am
Hi Paul,
Rejection can definitely sting. Can I ask what, specifically, you're having a hard time processing?
Paul
not a newbie
Posts: 6 Joined: Mon Jun 22, 2020 4:39 pm
Age: 19
Primary language: English
Pronouns: He/Him
Sexual identity: Straight
Location: North America
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by Paul » Fri Jul 10, 2020 10:14 am
Sam W wrote: Hi Paul,
Rejection can definitely sting. Can I ask what, specifically, you're having a hard time processing?
I just was hurt that she turned me down because she said I had no experience.
Sam W
scarleteen staff/volunteer
Posts: 9784 Joined: Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:06 am
Age: 32
Awesomeness Quotient: I raise carnivorous plants
Primary language: english
Pronouns: she/her
Sexual identity: queer
Location: Desert
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by Sam W » Fri Jul 10, 2020 10:19 am
Ouch, that can certainly sting. It may help to keep in mind that someone who would hold your lack of experience against you or act weird about it is not someone who's like to be a great partner for you in the first place.
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