I guess I'll just get into it, I am a 17 year old girl (i turn 18 in a few days). I just got into my first relationship ever. We reach 2 months tomorrow! I really like him--definitely more than I've ever liked anyone before. But the thing is, no matter what him and I do together, I don't feel ANY sexual pleasure. Not only that, but I can't even get physically aroused.
I think it should be noted that I've never masturbated before, although since I was about 14 I would read erotic fanfiction to get me aroused--but then would never do anything about the arousal besides wait for it to go away. Once I started dating this boy, I wanted to try masturbation so I could find out whats good for me. But not even reading the erotic fanfiction turns me on anymore. Therefore, nothing works when I try to masturbate. Its like my sexual desire just left my body entirely. (although I do mentally want to be doing things)
And its not like the two of us aren't doing foreplay to get me buttered up. We are. It just doesn't work. And the more frustrated I get about it, obviously the more its not gonna happen! And I just don't know what to do. What if I'm asexual? I don't know. Please give any advice that you can!