so my boyfriend invited me to his place tomorrow night and he he might be ready to go further together! for context, he's asexual so we've never had sex together but he is still interested in maybe having sex w me! as far as i know, he's a virgin, and i definitely am not. ive also never had sex with a longterm partner. i am used to mostly hookups with friends and others where its just a one night sort of situation. i usually dont prepare at all for these times because i dont really care how people see me if theyre just my friends, you know? but i kinda care about my image towards boyfie more and i was wondering theres anything people normally do to prepare to have sex with their partners? shave? shower??? what else? im just gonna bring my vibe and some lube to his house, and we can use them on each other (only if he wants) cause i know he doesnt have toys and he might be hesitant since its his first time. i wanna know what else i should do to be prepared. anyone is welcome to answer with ideas!