There's no such thing as anything -- not a piercing, not a kind of sex, not an anything -- that makes sex feel best for everyone, because what feels good for people varies much, much too much, even for people who have the same genitals, gender identity or other body parts.
Some people won't find genital sex is a kind of sex they even like at all, or won't want receptive vaginal or anal sex. Some people don't like how piercings feel! Some people will insist on condoms and so won't be able to feel a piercing the way they would without them. Other people love piercings! Others won't even really feel the difference, or will sometimes but not others. Get where I'm going here?
This is about something that's part of YOUR body, and the person who is going to feel it most and live with it most is actually you. So you're going to be the best person to focus on in your decisions about it, not everyone else, especially since you just can't universalize in this way with what people will and won't, do and don't like.
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead