Hi,
So I identify as genderfluid and pansexual. (I also have other labels such as queer, genderqueer, woman, gay-ish, non-binary, and other labels but genderfluid and pan are the ones I like best)
Only my close friends (4-5 people at school basically) and my parents know. Or at least, that's who I wanted to know.
I have a roommate at school so I told her about my identity because she's a really curious person and inclusive - I know that for a fact. Thing is, her sister is biphobic and also the nosiest and bitchiest person I've ever met. (I rarely call anyone a bitch btw.) So I think (not with proof but I'm like 99.99% certain) that my roommate's sister outed me as genderfluid to other students in the school community. I don't know wether to confront her or not... she completely violated my privacy. I'm not in the closet, per say, but I am private about my identity.
I don't have proof which is why I'm so frustrated but I can't just let her get away with another thing. She's such a bitch in general and I think she needs to understand that outing me is really, really not cool of her. She should have asked for my permission.
Any advice???