Hi, I'm a female and every single time I masturbate, without fail, I get painfully sensitive before I orgasm and have to stop. I've tried multiple different things, like indirect clit stimulation and penetration but they never work since I always get too sensitive.
An important note is that when I try penetration I've noticed I can't do a whole lot - anything more than about my finger will start to burn and be uncomfortable so I have to pull it out. I mention this because it makes me wonder if I have some sort of physical issue causing this, but I'm not quite sure. I know a lot of times sexual problems are psychological, too, so I'm at a crossroads.
I'm still a virgin so I can't say it's affecting any sexual activity.
So what steps should I take? Should I see a doctor, or maybe should I try to work on penetration more and work my way up, so to speak? Or if it's a psychological thing, how can I overcome it? Thank you.