Hel wrote:Update: So he and I were out tonight, and he asked if I wanted to try the whole fingering thing. It was exciting when he unzipped my jacket and touched my thighs and stuff. He (with my consent, of course) tried the whole rubbing my vagina through my underwear. Thing is, we were outside and it was really, really cold. The cold did not turn me on - it did the opposite. And I didn’t feel aroused enough so I didn’t want him to touch me without my underwear because the setting wasn’t right. There’s a time and place for everything, and I guess tonight wasn’t it.
I really want to get aroused! We have the chance to be inside next weekend, so we’re planning on trying again then. I’m hoping that since it will be warmer (and we’ll have more time to be together) I’ll be able to get more aroused and wet. I was a bit disappointed because I wasn’t horny enough to really feel anything when he was touching me down there. How can I be more turned on?
Also, he asked me if I wanted to touch his penis and I wasn’t sure - I told him I hadn’t given it much thought. We decided to wait on that as well so we could both be more aroused - hopefully that will make the experience better. Any tips on how I should touch him? I’ll ask him too, obviously, but I don’t have experience with this so I wondered if there were general tips to make it enjoyable for both of us.
Though it was a (mostly) unsuccessful attempt at fingering, I’m still glad he and I are going to try again until we get it right, and that we can talk openly about sex and sexual stuff.
*Sorry I accidentally made this a quote. (I’m not very tech savvy and I don’t know how to reverse it on my phone.) But if someone could answer some questions I had about being more horny/touching my bf that would be appreciated!*
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