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by Heather
Sat May 08, 2021 7:37 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Struggling to keep my weight gain fantasies under control
Replies: 16
Views: 2741

Re: Struggling to keep my weight gain fantasies under control

You're welcome! It just sounds like this is getting outside both our abilities here, but more, outside what this medium offers. I think that what you need here is probably going to be way better delivered in a more private setting at the very least, you know? Both when it comes to the matter of othe...
by Heather
Fri May 07, 2021 12:11 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: which penis piercing makes vaginal and anal sex feel the best
Replies: 4
Views: 1597

Re: which penis piercing makes vaginal and anal sex feel the best

So, “stimulation” is a word that just means we feel a thing. By all means, a piercing in a place where someone can feel it will generally result in someone feeling a thing, or being stimulated. However, whether or not a person *likes* that kind of stimulation is all over the map. Make sense?
by Heather
Fri May 07, 2021 6:54 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Struggling to keep my weight gain fantasies under control
Replies: 16
Views: 2741

Re: Struggling to keep my weight gain fantasies under control

I appreciate you trusting me to share all of this, belled. I'm so sorry there's so much fear wrapped up in all of this for you in so many ways. You know, to me, this is starting to sound like mental health professional territory in a few ways; like you'd be much better served by someone with that tr...
by Heather
Thu May 06, 2021 10:13 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: which penis piercing makes vaginal and anal sex feel the best
Replies: 4
Views: 1597

Re: which penis piercing makes vaginal and anal sex feel the best

There's no such thing as anything -- not a piercing, not a kind of sex, not an anything -- that makes sex feel best for everyone, because what feels good for people varies much, much too much, even for people who have the same genitals, gender identity or other body parts. Some people won't find gen...
by Heather
Thu May 06, 2021 10:01 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Minors & Sex
Replies: 8
Views: 1581

Re: Minors & Sex

Certainly. I'm still not clear what capacity you're seeing this young person in, but if it's in any of these -- https://www.nysmandatedreporter.org/MandatedReporters.aspx -- I'm afraid that you may be mandated to report here. At the very least, if you have a supervisor or supervising agency, I'd be ...
by Heather
Thu May 06, 2021 8:54 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Minors & Sex
Replies: 8
Views: 1581

Re: Minors & Sex

I just want to add in that I think it's important you let her know that from a legal standpoint, SHE is also engaging in felonies as well, I'm afraid, by *herself* making, possessing and distributing child pornography. That is how these laws are set up and view it, however ridiculous that may seem (...
by Heather
Thu May 06, 2021 8:48 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Struggling to keep my weight gain fantasies under control
Replies: 16
Views: 2741

Re: Struggling to keep my weight gain fantasies under control

Hey there, belled. Good to see you again. :) I see two prongs to this conversation: 1) making sure that you're not engaging in thinking or behavior that endangers your health in some way, that isn't in some way disordered (and I don't mean because you think it's sexy to be fat -- there's nothing the...
by Heather
Wed May 05, 2021 1:21 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Bottom growth
Replies: 1
Views: 1193

Re: Bottom growth

Beyond what T itself will do, you mean? If so, nope. Besides just taking care of your general health so the T can do its job and your circulation stays good, there isn’t.

It does tend to happen for most folks pretty fast on T, though.
by Heather
Tue May 04, 2021 9:12 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: changes on t
Replies: 1
Views: 813

Re: changes on t

Hey there, phantomdog. I'm glad that you were able to get on T as you wanted and that it's so far been so positive for you! HUZZAH! (I really need to get The Great outta my head.) That discharge won't be about ejaculate, that's not a thing in the way that it sounds like you're thinking. However -- j...
by Heather
Mon May 03, 2021 10:22 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: my guilt is eating me up alive
Replies: 25
Views: 2495

Re: my guilt is eating me up alive

Sure thing. I hope you can start feeling better about it soon. It sounds like this has just been really activating for you when it comes to your trauma. <3
by Heather
Mon May 03, 2021 10:03 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: my guilt is eating me up alive
Replies: 25
Views: 2495

Re: my guilt is eating me up alive

Hey there, haikyufan. It sounds to me like in order to do that, you might have to figure out where it's really coming from. He's been very clear with you that it was NOT a boundary violation on his part. Just because something might feel weird sometimes doesn't mean a boundary has been crossed, by t...
by Heather
Thu Apr 29, 2021 11:33 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sperm Survivability in Period
Replies: 4
Views: 838

Re: Sperm Survivability in Period

Bodies can certainly do weird things sometimes, but that would be pretty hard for a body to pull off, since it'd effectively be asking it to have been doing two opposing things hormonally for most of a cycle at the same time, you know?
by Heather
Wed Apr 28, 2021 1:56 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Irrational semen fears (long)
Replies: 4
Views: 974

Re: Irrational semen fears (long)

Hey there, Dreamlore. I just was coming through and catching up with the boards, and I wanted to respond toi something you said here about you being a real freak. You're not, you know. I mean, not in the derogatory sense ( I can't speak for your positive freakitude!). Not in the sense that this is s...
by Heather
Tue Apr 27, 2021 9:35 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sperm Survivability in Period
Replies: 4
Views: 838

Re: Sperm Survivability in Period

Hey there, Rhea. I'm not sure I understand what you're asking. Are you asking how sperm cells that are deposited into the vagina could stay hanging around in the vagina or inside the cervix during a menstrual period? If so, then the answer as I understand it is that it wouldn't be all that likely, g...
by Heather
Tue Apr 20, 2021 9:25 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How effective is sperm/semen outside the body?
Replies: 12
Views: 1612

Re: How effective is sperm/semen outside the body?

Yep, that works just the same as handwashing does. <3
by Heather
Wed Apr 14, 2021 11:07 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Exclusivity?
Replies: 22
Views: 1432

Re: Exclusivity?

<3
by Heather
Tue Apr 13, 2021 12:00 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Higher sex drive causes?
Replies: 8
Views: 1110

Re: Higher sex drive causes?

By the way, I just wanted to pop in and say one brief thing to kind of sum all this up which is to make clear that even the idea that there are "causes" for you having greater or more frequent desire than a partner is, itself, kind of a busted idea that probably comes from some misapprehen...
by Heather
Tue Apr 13, 2021 11:28 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Casual sex as a virgin
Replies: 9
Views: 613

Re: Casual sex as a virgin

I'm not sure I understand what you're asking for exactly! Can you be a little more clear about what it is you want resources for? What's the "this" that what folks have provided resources for so far haven't addressed? :)
by Heather
Tue Apr 13, 2021 10:16 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Exclusivity?
Replies: 22
Views: 1432

Re: Exclusivity?

Always happy to support and help you.
by Heather
Mon Apr 12, 2021 1:04 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Exclusivity?
Replies: 22
Views: 1432

Re: Exclusivity?

Exactly. Again, I think this is individual, but it's about figuring out where you are with your own pacing in terms of your emotional investment, and what you need to know when. At some point, we just gotta know things because there often comes a point where we need to know if we should (or want to)...
by Heather
Mon Apr 12, 2021 12:16 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Exclusivity?
Replies: 22
Views: 1432

Re: Exclusivity?

Totally, and you you can also be specific about that sooner rather than later part, too. :) I certainly generally feel like -- for me, anyway -- that by about a couple months of dating, I will want to get a sense of where something is going per how it's going to fit in my life if I'm going to keep i...
by Heather
Mon Apr 12, 2021 11:44 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Exclusivity?
Replies: 22
Views: 1432

Re: Exclusivity?

Hey there, glad to hear about this! Just wanted to add on a little something, which is that you also have the option of talking about exclusivity as something you ultimately want, but that -- so long as this is true -- you don't need right now if it's something he also wants, but isn't there yet. In...
by Heather
Thu Apr 08, 2021 1:58 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: What's your favorite outfit?
Replies: 22
Views: 7422

Re: What's your favorite outfit?

I, too, am long a member of the jumpsuit fan club. But on the whole, my enduring uniform that seems to stick around and make me feel comfortable in my skin over decades tends to be a white or black t-shirt and black jeans. A blazer or nice shirt over it if I need to be fancy, something silk under th...
by Heather
Thu Apr 08, 2021 1:55 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: How to make my breasts bigger? Please help!
Replies: 11
Views: 1690

Re: How to make my breasts bigger? Please help!

Aside of building chest muscle underneath the breast tissue -- and for most folks, building muscle is always something supportive of health anyway -- no, there isn't. But something you CAN do is work to let go of the idea that there is such a thing as "embarrassingly small." Or that any gi...
by Heather
Tue Apr 06, 2021 1:39 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Clit problems
Replies: 6
Views: 2288

Re: Clit problems

Most people don't have enough of a clitoral hood -- or more to the point, it's tethered to its attachment points in such a way -- to do what I think of when I think of "rolling" something back. Have you seen these vulva illustrations (just FYI, these are illustrations of vulvas) here: http...

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