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- Tue Jun 02, 2020 2:15 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Crush situation got more complicated
- Replies: 9
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Re: Crush situation got more complicated
Also, if she does match back with me and/or accept my friend request, how do you think I should slowly pick up where the interaction left of, yet introduce the idea of videochatting? (Again, she wants to see more of Austria)
- Tue Jun 02, 2020 2:06 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Crush situation got more complicated
- Replies: 9
- Views: 3285
Re: Crush situation got more complicated
Yes, I have, many times and have done some techniques related to it before the whole Instagram shutdown. I asked someone how to deal with uncertainty and she said to focus on how what you know is certain and I do know more that is certain such as: - She matched with me twice - She doesn’t get much n...
- Sun May 31, 2020 8:45 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Crush situation got more complicated
- Replies: 9
- Views: 3285
Re: Crush situation got more complicated
Yeah, I will be sad for that indeed. Also, she has NOT blocked me on Letterboxd, but no one can contact each other on Letterboxd (at least not yet). I have many, but its not for the long term. I am beginning DBT and I want to do expose therapy, but I truly miss this connection (for whatever this is).
- Sun May 31, 2020 8:31 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Feeling like I shouldn’t contact friends
- Replies: 9
- Views: 3021
Re: Feeling like I shouldn’t contact friends
Normally that goes very well and it goes amazing.
I’m trying to manage it with DBT and I am thinking of doing some expose therapy. Other than that some distractions, but that works temporarily.
I’m trying to manage it with DBT and I am thinking of doing some expose therapy. Other than that some distractions, but that works temporarily.
- Sun May 31, 2020 7:17 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Feeling like I shouldn’t contact friends
- Replies: 9
- Views: 3021
Feeling like I shouldn’t contact friends
Now, I have contacted my friends, as in video chatted them last week and have texted some of them. I want to, However, due to my moods and sometimes feeling like I disturb them, I feel like I shouldn’t contact them. My intrusive thoughts also come into play thinking ehhh, why would they care or they...
- Sun May 31, 2020 6:27 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Crush situation got more complicated
- Replies: 9
- Views: 3285
Crush situation got more complicated
So, my crush’s social media account is no longer available and that was only one of the means to contact her. I felt numb and a little devastated. But, she didn’t block me, she deleted her entire social media account that we followed each other on (that she linked me up to btw). She didn’t see the m...
- Thu May 21, 2020 7:56 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to tell a bad texter you love them
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1848
Re: How to tell a bad texter you love them
Yes. Also that sounds like great advice, I won’t do that right now, but I may do that when I meet her or get to know her more. I mean, I really want to be with her and I am willing to wait out her much slower pace because of our common interests such as the very same movies (Hereditary, Parasite, Ex...
- Thu May 21, 2020 7:01 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to tell a bad texter you love them
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1848
How to tell a bad texter you love them
This is a follow up to How to Tell a Bad Texter Likes You : I want to tell my crush I love her and would like to date her, but more importantly meet her when I come back to the USA. I want to try to use Scarleteen’s tips on asking her whether that is doable to date her or not, but at the same time, ...
- Thu May 21, 2020 5:59 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Why can’t I get myself to contact my friends?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1310
Why can’t I get myself to contact my friends?
I want to contact (and when I mean contact, I mean video call) more people, especially old friends and new people, specifically in the USA, where I live. I got all the resources, people and more time now that school is off, however ... I don’t for some reason contact them. I often forget or think th...
- Thu May 21, 2020 1:51 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2921
Re: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Like I am also really confused because on the dating site she deleted her profile picture again, so I requested to be her friend and I clicked the ❤️ button on the new profile. So should I have, since I am also following her on the social media sight. She also saw my story, but didn’t read my messag...
- Thu May 21, 2020 1:43 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2921
Re: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Thank you so much Alice. She is pretty interested about what is like being Austria and loves my graffiti pictures that I send her. She wants to even go to Austria. So, is that a sign that she is interested in me as a person?
- Wed May 20, 2020 12:08 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2921
Re: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Yes, probably when she replies or when we videochat. I hope she does very soon on either site.
Also, I want to explain my situation to her but how do to that? Like I live in California, but I am in Austria for the time being because my American parents work here?
Also, I want to explain my situation to her but how do to that? Like I live in California, but I am in Austria for the time being because my American parents work here?
- Tue May 19, 2020 11:03 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2921
Re: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Hey that sounds doable! I really though want to do it in the most nice and sexiest way possible. Like flirty way, like first date lesbian couples do.
- Tue May 19, 2020 10:13 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2921
How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
I have this crush and I want to know whether she likes me and especially during quarantine, I really want to know whether she will have some relationship (or friendship) during or after its over. Some the backstory: I met her on an online dating site where we matched. We hit it off because we have a...