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- Fri Mar 05, 2021 2:39 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: I feel upset and I don’t know why
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2467
I feel upset and I don’t know why
So my boyfriend wants to finger me, and I want it too. Like, I want it a lot. But I feel really weird about it. Because it’s kind of a big deal. Like, our relationship is great and I think that being more sexual is making it even better. :) It’s just kind of overwhelming. I think we might try it for...
- Tue Mar 02, 2021 1:30 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 99211
Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Okay, I’ll definitely think about what turns me on and relaxes me, and I’ll talk to my boyfriend about it beforehand - and during obviously. Hopefully it will be a fun experience. Thanks for the advice!
- Tue Mar 02, 2021 8:17 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 99211
Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
I’ll definitely talk to him and come up with some things he and I are both willing to try. Are there any tips for being relaxed?
- Mon Mar 01, 2021 1:52 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 99211
Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Okay, I’ll talk to him about lube. I’m sure we can get it at the local pharmacy. I also wanted to ask: how can we make sure I’m extra aroused and wet? I know he and I have just started being this sexual with each other so maybe that’s why I’m nervous about trying to get aroused - I’ve been aroused w...
- Mon Mar 01, 2021 12:24 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 99211
Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Yes that definitely makes sense. Communication definitely is key. Is it okay if we don’t use lube? Like, if I’m aroused and wet would it still be okay? Since it’s our first time doing something like this, I’m not sure how far we’ll go - if he’ll just touch me or actually insert his fingers. Depends ...
- Sun Feb 28, 2021 1:21 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 99211
What can I expect my first time being fingered?
So my boyfriend and I have started to talk about sex and be more sexual around each other. It's been really great so far - the conversations about sex, touching nipples, etc. He asked if he could finger/masturbate me too, and I said I wasn't ready for that tonight, since it was a lot to process. How...
- Sat Feb 27, 2021 2:27 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Should I come out to my boyfriend?
- Replies: 8
- Views: 9011
Re: Should I come out to my boyfriend?
I wanted to share my success with coming out to my boyfriend. He already knows about my gender fluidity and has told be he’d like me no matter what gender I am - I told him same goes for him. He’s really supportive of my gender and it’s great. Today I was like, I think I’m pansexual and he just said...
- Sat Feb 27, 2021 2:07 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Don't want to overwhelm bf
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1591
Re: Don't want to overwhelm bf
So funny story, Today my boyfriend and I were hanging out and it was actually really ironic that I posted about being more sexual today. Because today we flirted in kind of a sexy way - puns about being thirsty, etc. That’s all somewhat usual. But then we somehow ended up mentioning sex, and he actu...
- Sat Feb 27, 2021 1:43 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Don't want to overwhelm bf
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1591
Don't want to overwhelm bf
Hi everyone, So my boyfriend of six months and I are finally back in person, after months of long-distance due to COVID-19, and we really love each other. He's super great about going at a slow pace and trying his best to make our make-out sessions fun and romantic. :) Last night we were really eage...
- Tue Feb 16, 2021 9:52 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: PDA at school and COVID-19
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3231
Re: PDA at school and COVID-19
I think the guidelines are true when students are at the school, so going on dates and stuff is still okay. They are generally really okay with mild PDA short hugs, hand holding, etc. But I guess it would be wiser for my boyfriend and I not to be too touchy in public - per COVID-19 regulations. Than...
- Tue Feb 16, 2021 3:01 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: PDA at school and COVID-19
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3231
PDA at school and COVID-19
So I'm finally going back to school next week and I'm so excited! :) Regulations will be different for COVID-19, so there'll be more masks and stuff too, which is completely understandable. I'm super psyched because my boyfriend will be there at the end of next week. It's been so long since I've see...
- Mon Feb 08, 2021 1:29 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 5
- Views: 6570
Re: I don't know what to do
Hi, I checked out headspace a little. I didn’t do the online chat yet but maybe I will soon. I did have a very important shift in mindset. I still want to address the self harm issue but I feel so much better and healthier. I think having a freak out might have been necessary. I think one of the rea...
- Mon Feb 08, 2021 8:13 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 5
- Views: 6570
Re: I don't know what to do
I have gone on 7 Cups online therapy and talked about feeling upset about COVID-19 and the LGBTQ+ issues. I did not go into detail about self-harm, but I hinted at it and there were some suggestions for coping mechanisms. I do think that I am good at stopping bad habits and trying to think more posi...
- Mon Feb 08, 2021 5:59 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 5
- Views: 6570
I don't know what to do
Kind of a rant, also notes about my background, and I need advice about a bad habit that I don't want to do but I started doing anyway. This isn't the kind of thing I normally post here but I need to get this off my chest. Can you answer as many of my points as possible? That would be so great, 'cau...
- Wed Feb 03, 2021 6:57 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2888
Re: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
Thanks for all the great information! I'll be sure to look at the link as well.
- Wed Feb 03, 2021 12:08 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2888
Re: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
Hi, Helping me out with methods might be a good thing. I'm actually already taking birth control, and I wanted to see what other methods could be used with the one I'm taking so that I can minimize pregnancy/STD risk as much as possible. (Hopefully I'll go back to being in-person at school soon so m...
- Tue Feb 02, 2021 12:09 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2888
Re: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
Thank you for the articles and all the advice! I'll be sure to check those out.
- Mon Feb 01, 2021 1:54 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2888
Re: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
What you said about dreams being a way of processing things defined makes sense. I guess I’ve been thinking a lot about my boyfriend and craving intimacy and being with him in person. I guess just knowing that he misses me (and I’m pretty sure he’s as horny as I am or more, lol) makes my feelings st...
- Mon Feb 01, 2021 2:44 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2888
Weird sex dream about my boyfriend
So I've dreamed about my current boyfriend before - I remember most of my dreams and I dream about all the people I know, so those previous dreams were fine. But last night I had a really weird sex dream about my boyfriend and I'm confused about what it means. In my dream my boyfriend and I were in ...
- Mon Jan 18, 2021 2:34 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Toxic ex still haunts me
- Replies: 13
- Views: 4176
Re: Toxic ex still haunts me
Update: I used the outline for starting the conversation like you suggested, and he was ready to talk right away. I told him about my ex, and he was very understanding, and he helped give suggestions for venting my feelings out. <3 Thank you guys for all the advice! Just wanted to share my success s...
- Wed Jan 13, 2021 1:11 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Toxic ex still haunts me
- Replies: 13
- Views: 4176
Re: Toxic ex still haunts me
Okay, thank you, this seems like a really good way to say it. I’ll try this.
- Wed Jan 13, 2021 12:06 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Toxic ex still haunts me
- Replies: 13
- Views: 4176
Re: Toxic ex still haunts me
Thank you for sharing some positive thoughts on this! I just want to make sure we're talking at a time that works for both of us so we're not weighed down any further by this topic. I'm just uncertain when to suggest talking about this, since it's so soon after the death I mentioned. I don't really ...
- Tue Jan 12, 2021 1:20 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Toxic ex still haunts me
- Replies: 13
- Views: 4176
Re: Toxic ex still haunts me
I guess I mostly want to talk about what my ex boyfriend did to hurt me - emotionally speaking. Just so my current boyfriend understands why I act a certain way in our current relationship, and so he knows how to best help me feel safe and loved. (I know he’s already trying very hard.) Good idea to ...
- Tue Jan 12, 2021 12:27 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Toxic ex still haunts me
- Replies: 13
- Views: 4176
Re: Toxic ex still haunts me
I'm inclined to talk about it over video too. I think that all this stuff about my ex definitely still upsets me. I feel like my boyfriend has the right to know about the relationship I was in before him, so that he can understand me better, and help me feel better, of course. I think I should wait ...
- Mon Jan 11, 2021 2:02 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Toxic ex still haunts me
- Replies: 13
- Views: 4176
Re: Toxic ex still haunts me
Yeah it really makes me upset when I think about my ex. I’ve spoken to my parents a few times about it, and they were understanding. I want to talk to my boyfriend about it, and I almost did today but then someone we both know died so I think I’ll wait a bit longer before talking about my ex, which ...