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by Mo
Tue Dec 15, 2020 4:33 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Getting Back in The Game
Replies: 1
Views: 703

Re: Getting Back in The Game

I think one of the toughest things about relationships is that so much about finding a romantic partner comes down to pure, unpredictable luck. There are plenty of amazing people that can take a while to find a partner without that reflecting any fault or problem that they're having; sometimes peopl...
by Mo
Tue Dec 15, 2020 4:06 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sex Forums/Group Masturbation
Replies: 3
Views: 748

Re: Sex Forums/Group Masturbation

There are spaces online where people share photos of themselves, and have sexual conversations either over text or voice/video chat, but they are adults-only spaces; any place like this online is going to be only for people 18 or older.
by Mo
Tue Dec 15, 2020 4:02 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Porn
Replies: 1
Views: 638

Re: Porn

That isn't something we or any user here can provide; it's not lawful to distribute porn to people who are underage, and legality aside, it's outside the scope of what we're here to do as a sex education organization.
by Mo
Mon Dec 14, 2020 5:47 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: I think I'm ready
Replies: 27
Views: 2657

Re: I think I'm ready

Hi there, and welcome to Scarleteen. I'm glad you found out about us! When it comes to exploring masturbation, it sounds like your parents are supportive and willing to give you space, which is great. I can certainly understand why it might feel a little uncomfortable to say something that either di...
by Mo
Mon Dec 14, 2020 4:24 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I’m in love with two girls at the same time online - what to do?
Replies: 51
Views: 4947

Re: I’m in love with two girls at the same time online - what to do?

I think sending her that message and then doing your best to step back and give her space to reply when she's ready, like you're doing, is the right call!
by Mo
Mon Dec 14, 2020 4:08 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Unable to orgasm
Replies: 5
Views: 729

Re: Unable to orgasm

You're more than welcome to check back in and talk about how it goes. :) Best of luck!
by Mo
Mon Dec 14, 2020 4:08 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: I can’t find my clit and I don’t feel any sexual pleasure when I try to masturbate
Replies: 10
Views: 2691

Re: I can’t find my clit and I don’t feel any sexual pleasure when I try to masturbate

It might be worth a try! :) Keep in mind, too, that some people just aren't that into porn, or have particular tastes, or enjoy reading sexual stories much more than they enjoy watching porn. So if you're interested in sexual media of some kind, you might find with time and experimentation that you ...
by Mo
Mon Dec 14, 2020 3:45 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Confused about my orientation again
Replies: 5
Views: 1576

Re: Confused about my orientation again

I'm glad you've found some terms that resonate with you! I think if pansexual is feeling good to you, even if the finer details of your orientation are a little unclear it's totally fine to call yourself that, but it's really up to you and your comfort level. :)
by Mo
Fri Dec 11, 2020 6:40 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: I can’t find my clit and I don’t feel any sexual pleasure when I try to masturbate
Replies: 10
Views: 2691

Re: I can’t find my clit and I don’t feel any sexual pleasure when I try to masturbate

Hi Guacamole, and welcome to Scarleteen. When you're masturbating, are there any kinds of touch that do feel good, or is it feeling like nothing at all is feeling pleasurable? In terms of finding your clitoris, you may have tried this when using a mirror but if you haven't, trying to gently pull bac...
by Mo
Fri Dec 11, 2020 5:48 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Unable to orgasm
Replies: 5
Views: 729

Re: Unable to orgasm

Thanks for those answers! It sounds like you're coming at masturbation with pleasure, more than orgasm, as your main goal, and that's certainly what I'd recommend. It's good also that you're usually aroused; if you ever find yourself not feeling arousal already when you start to masturbate, or if yo...
by Mo
Fri Dec 11, 2020 4:40 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I’m in love with two girls at the same time online - what to do?
Replies: 51
Views: 4947

Re: I’m in love with two girls at the same time online - what to do?

I think the best thing to do, if you want to tell her how you feel, is be pretty direct and keep it simple. I don't think there's anything creepy about telling someone something like "I really care about you and I'd love to find ways to connect on a deeper level or talk more often," and I ...
by Mo
Fri Nov 27, 2020 5:30 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Masturbation
Replies: 9
Views: 2887

Re: Masturbation

You could ask him, at some point, if he's all right talking about the types of things you're bringing up when you're spending time together. Does that sound like something you'd be up for doing?
by Mo
Tue Nov 24, 2020 5:39 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sexual outlets
Replies: 23
Views: 4126

Re: Sexual outlets

I think trying to talk to them again sounds like a good idea! This may be a case where what you each need from a partner is 100% okay and valid to need but not compatible with each other; it does happen pretty often, that two people love and care for each other and need things that don't align with ...
by Mo
Tue Nov 24, 2020 5:32 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Sexual Intimacy After Rape
Replies: 1
Views: 1734

Re: Sexual Intimacy After Rape

Hi babywitchdoctor, and welcome to Scarleteen. :) I'm sorry to hear that you've had those experiences of sexual assault, but it is great that you're in a relationship right now where you feel safe and respected; that's really wonderful. I don't know if you've seen this recent advice column or not, b...
by Mo
Mon Nov 23, 2020 5:29 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Loneliness bites.
Replies: 9
Views: 2935

Re: Loneliness bites.

I haven't been in the habit of having phone calls or video chats with people very much, before this year, but I've been trying to set up more regular chats with friends so I can feel a bit more connected to folks I am not able to see in person right now. To be honest, it doesn't help as much as I wi...
by Mo
Fri Nov 20, 2020 5:18 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Hair and Presentation
Replies: 31
Views: 7784

Re: Hair and Presentation

One thing that can be so hard about trying to create gender (or lack-of-gender) cues through presentation is that there's no way to know what cues any particular person will notice or focus on, or how they will interpret them. One person might have a very different read on your gender depending on h...
by Mo
Fri Nov 20, 2020 4:26 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Confused about Realtionships with my Religion
Replies: 14
Views: 1764

Re: Confused about Realtionships with my Religion

I'm so glad that helped! We're here if you wind up having more questions in the future. :)
by Mo
Tue Nov 17, 2020 5:33 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: I'm scared about covid.
Replies: 9
Views: 2520

Re: I'm scared about covid.

Is there a teacher or other administrator at your school you feel comfortable enough with that you could ask them about this? I think anyone who is aware of the accommodations you have in place at school and who's willing to talk to your parents and advocate for accommodations at home could be a hel...
by Mo
Tue Nov 17, 2020 4:35 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Confused about Realtionships with my Religion
Replies: 14
Views: 1764

Re: Confused about Realtionships with my Religion

If you haven't seen this article, it has a helpful walkthrough of a standard OBGYN appointment, including the pelvic exam: Your First Gynecologist Visit . I know it can be intimidating to talk to a doctor about how you're feeling, but it can help to let them know at the beginning of the appointment ...
by Mo
Mon Nov 16, 2020 5:37 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: I don't know what to do- heavy vaginal bleeding
Replies: 3
Views: 1110

Re: I don't know what to do- heavy vaginal bleeding

I'm glad the bleeding has slowed and you're feeling less sore! What I'd recommend is holding off from any sexual activity or masturbation until it's been a day or two after the last time you notice pain or bleeding.
by Mo
Mon Nov 16, 2020 4:45 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Bottom Surgery confliction?
Replies: 3
Views: 2401

Re: Bottom Surgery confliction?

It may also be helpful to look for communities online where people share their feelings and experiences about their own decisions around surgery. Every trans person is going to have their own feelings on this, of course, and one person's experiences won't necessarily match your own, but I know that ...
by Mo
Tue Nov 10, 2020 5:48 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: BC Pill
Replies: 4
Views: 1570

Re: BC Pill

With a combination pill, you have twelve hours after your regular time before a pill is considered "late." For someone taking a minipill (progestin-only pill), that window narrows down to three hours, but since you're on the combination pill, taking it three hours late wouldn't impact the ...
by Mo
Tue Nov 10, 2020 5:34 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Coping with Loss
Replies: 8
Views: 2056

Re: Coping with Loss

I think that sounds really lovely. I'm currently dealing with a lot of grief from losing my beloved cat to cancer at the end of September and I've found myself doing a lot of thinking about ways to honor her that feel meaningful to me. I'm glad you're finding some ways to continue to feel connected ...
by Mo
Tue Nov 10, 2020 5:27 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: I got this weird cough...
Replies: 5
Views: 2037

Re: I got this weird cough...

We're all definitely taking it seriously here! I'm glad you've recovered.
by Mo
Tue Nov 10, 2020 5:26 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sexual outlets
Replies: 23
Views: 4126

Re: Sexual outlets

I just want to be another voice here saying that it's totally valid to feel sad or disappointed about not having the amount of sexual intimacy in your life that you want. It's so clear that this is painful for you and I'm sorry that you're also feeling bad about feeling that disappointment. It's def...

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