how do they work, do they exist?

I know this is most likely coming from a place of misunderstanding or closed-mindedness, but just to confirm, based on all the articles I've read on this site, as a cis male I need to *always* wear a condom for *every* sexual act if i wanna not run the risk of STIs?

with my long distance partner, with whom i share my kinky interests, I've often talked about possibly enacting on some of them if and when we ever meet in person. Assuming we do some time in the near future, would it be worth it to start pracicing and learning actual tying techniques and such? I've ...

because this seems to be an almost double standard: if the whole zero-tolerance-for-bigotry thing is in effect but we also don't want to use these words as slurs then how do we get people to change? like what I've seen in effect is "this person is racist. therefore all their opinions are no lon...

the thing is though, how do we get people to see that being racist sexist etc is not necessarily a marker of "100% pure evil don't ever do anything with this person"?

I'm talking about modern current media

why is it that in basically all forms of art that I've seen for the most part, women, nude or otherwise are inherently pretty unless intended to be ugly fat etc, while males are depicted almost exclusively as average-ugly, with very few adonis type characters subjects etc that have that kind of beau...

I know this is a weird and kinda dumb question but for personal cross dressing reasons I need to know how to make a skirt with no sewing, textile experience and no fabric to work with besides like an old shirt and maybe a towel

well I suppose my first time seeing my sexuality in a story, at least in a way that related to me, was... well I've never actually consumed any media with bi characters, not that I've avoided them but more that I've been too busy consuming all the non-bi media out there lol, like i just never have e...

as with live action porn it has pros and cons, as many have debated and agreed upon here

we constantly hear about gender roles that are mis-implemented and forced on people to adverse affects. what are some gender roles that you guys gals and other people do like?

I haven't ever dated physically but I've been in several long distance relationships since I was 13

lately I've been using a hairbrush handle as a prostate dildo. it's smooth and not too long or weirdly shaped. I clean it regularly and no one actually uses it for its intended purpose, I know for a fact I'm the only one in the house who uses it. just in case, are there any extra concerns I should h...

why does our culture seem so obsessed with the idea of totally giving yourself up because you supposedly love someone? even if it means breaking your principles, hurting yourself, letting someone break you? like realistically "doing anything for love" shouldn't be a relationship goal

what do y'all think of it?

I think this might sort of be the case. I don't believe in most pervasive media definitions of masculinity, and despite this in the back of my mind I'm still thinking "you're weak, be a man". as much as I make a conscious effort to disregard society's expectations of masculinity and forge ...

sorry if I'm not making sense, going on about nothing, contradicting myself

new or different things in my life not really in fact I've been seeing more skinny guys in media than ever lately(however most have been feminine, have yet to see too many examples of dudes with noodle arms virtually nonexistent abs that aren't made to look androgynous in fiction), people i don't th...

On and off over the course of a few months I've lately been feeling as though I'm too thin. I'm 15, 5'6 and 106 lb. I know I'm not underweight, and my current partner has said multiple times how he doesn't think my body should change and loves it, and I don't expect ultra-muscle for myself since I m...

more a general desire and as for ideal relationship structure I'm not quite sure. My current monogamous relationship is one I feel well about. It's fairly new but I haven't rushed it and we have a connection, can deal with and be friends with each other when not intoxicated by romance, and if this m...

my issue here isn't so much how long whatever relationship i get into after a hypothetical break would last so much as whether it would be worth leaving him, and so far I'm leaning toward "no it wouldnt'

lately I've been desiring a polyamorous relationship, but my boyfriend who I love is strictly monogamous and I don't wanna leave a good stable relationship for what may only be a temporary fling with someone else. what do I do? I know for a fact he wouldn't be open to it as we've discussed the issue...

am I the only one who feels like we need better words than homophobia, transphobia etc? like fear is an element of it but I feel like somehow it doesn't accurately describe the true hatred some have, and serves as ammo for people to pointlessly debate

hmmm I think I see it the most in porn(at least mainstream straight porn that is), and the way people online talk about masturbation, at least when it comes to things like toys the idea is that a girl with a dildo is something you'd "want" to see regardless of gender (because *of course* e...

Thank you!