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by Sam W
Fri Aug 29, 2014 8:35 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Trouble inserting tampons
Replies: 4
Views: 2005

Re: Trouble inserting tampons

Hi Rainbowskys, Since you would be using the just for inserting a tampon, you might look into oil based lubricants (like coconut oil) as they usually look more like "normal" house hold items. However, be aware that using oil based lubes can potentially trap bacteria in the vagina. It's har...
by Sam W
Thu Aug 28, 2014 9:06 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Who are you comfortable talking about sex with?
Replies: 8
Views: 5562

Who are you comfortable talking about sex with?

Now, this does not mean only discussing your personal sex life or sexual feelings. It can mean simply discussing issues around the politics of sex, or stuff like periods, STIs, and pregnancy in the abstract. So who, if anyone, do you feel comfortable talking about those topics with? Friends? Family?...
by Sam W
Tue Aug 26, 2014 8:41 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Questions about Manual Sex and Pregnancy
Replies: 28
Views: 7404

Re: Questions about Manual Sex and Pregnancy

Hi Leelee, With pre-ejaculate, anything other than direct genital to genital contact with it is a non-risk. And no, sperm cannot reactivate themselves, nor are they particularly hard to wash off your hands (like you read in that article, they're actually pretty fragile). You may also want to check o...
by Sam W
Mon Aug 25, 2014 9:14 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Antibiotics and BC
Replies: 1
Views: 1215

Re: Antibiotics and BC

Hi Kristy, So, this type of sex will always pose some risk. However, you used three birth control methods, which means that your odds of pregnancy are really, really low. Even if your pill had been compromised somewhat (and the best person to ask about the chances of that is your healthcare provider...
by Sam W
Mon Aug 25, 2014 9:01 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Plan B and Period. Please help!!
Replies: 1
Views: 1120

Re: Plan B and Period. Please help!!

Hi Joski, One of the side-effects of plan B is that it can make your cycle unpredictable. So, the bleeding you're experiencing may very well be your period. However, there is no way for us to know for certain that that's the case. The way to for certain whether or not you're pregnant is to take a pr...
by Sam W
Mon Aug 25, 2014 8:56 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Birth Control Question: How late is too late?
Replies: 3
Views: 1764

Re: Birth Control Question: How late is too late?

Hi Celica,

You're welcome :), and no, that does not change the grace period.
by Sam W
Mon Aug 25, 2014 8:55 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: First month of using the pill
Replies: 3
Views: 1936

Re: First month of using the pill

Hi Purplewookie, I'm going to quote from this article: Combined Oral Contraceptives (The Pill) "When you first start the pill, when it will be fully effective depends both on when you start it, as well as your own body chemistry. For most people who start the pill either on the first day of the...
by Sam W
Mon Aug 25, 2014 8:41 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Birth Control Question: How late is too late?
Replies: 3
Views: 1764

Re: Birth Control Question: How late is too late?

Hi Celica,

So, with combined pills, you actually have a 12 hour grace period before a pill is considered late. So an hour and a half is not going to compromise the effectiveness of your pill.
by Sam W
Thu Aug 21, 2014 8:30 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I want to come out, but...
Replies: 8
Views: 4780

Re: I want to come out, but...

Ah, I follow. Okay, then maybe the most you can bank on from your dad is that he'll support your orientation so that you won't feel totally unsupported by your family? As for what questions to expect, that's a little tricky, and hopefully some of our users and other volunteers can add to what I'm ab...
by Sam W
Thu Aug 21, 2014 8:17 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Buying book(s)
Replies: 16
Views: 4889

Re: Buying book(s)

Hi Nitehawk,

You're welcome. I think it is worth it to weigh the most likely outcomes (both positive and negative) and then see if you feel like ordering the books is worth it.

Do your parents generally open mail or packages that come for you?
by Sam W
Thu Aug 21, 2014 7:46 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Travel and Period Irregularity?
Replies: 3
Views: 1565

Re: Travel and Period Irregularity?

Hi repsev, There's no way for us to know for certain what the cause of the cramps might be. But, if you think you're due for a period, then that's definitely one possibility. However, if the cramps continue without seeming to link to a period or get significantly worse, you might want to check in wi...
by Sam W
Thu Aug 21, 2014 7:39 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I want to come out, but...
Replies: 8
Views: 4780

Re: I want to come out, but...

Hi Silentdragon, It sounds like you've already been working through the possible outcomes of your coming out, which is great! I think your decision to talk to your mom about your sexuality prior to a partner entering the picture is a sound one. One thing that might help you is to write out (literall...
by Sam W
Thu Aug 21, 2014 7:26 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Travel and Period Irregularity?
Replies: 3
Views: 1565

Re: Travel and Period Irregularity?

Hi repsev, Periods can vary in their arrival times for many reasons, although travel alone is unlikely to cause the irregularity. You can read about some of the most common reasons in the link below, but it can also help to remember that our bodies are not perfect machines, so you're cycle can be ir...
by Sam W
Thu Aug 21, 2014 7:13 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Buying book(s)
Replies: 16
Views: 4889

Re: Buying book(s)

Hi Nitehawk, This is a bit of a toughie, and hopefully some other folks might have some more suggestions. However, one thing I can think of is checking the library in your town (if you haven't already) to see if they have those two books, or if they can bring them in from another branch for you. It ...
by Sam W
Wed Aug 20, 2014 9:04 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Message boards
Replies: 1
Views: 1300

Re: Message boards

Hi natcmau, For your first five posts, you'll only be able to post in certain areas (you can read which ones here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=21&t=24 ) Luckily, in the area you've posted this question in, we have a few topics going that are meant to be conversation starters to ...
by Sam W
Wed Aug 20, 2014 8:45 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How do you express intimacy?
Replies: 0
Views: 1652

How do you express intimacy?

So, a little while ago we published this article on intimacy: Intimacy: The Whys, Hows, How-Nots, and So-Nots Taking what that article says about intimacy and all the ways it can be expressed, what does intimacy mean to you? How do you express it to the people you're close to? Do you find that the w...
by Sam W
Tue Aug 19, 2014 6:57 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: am i being too pushy?
Replies: 3
Views: 1843

Re: am i being too pushy?

Glad to hear it :)
by Sam W
Tue Aug 19, 2014 10:35 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Overweight and birth control effectiveness?
Replies: 1
Views: 1152

Re: Overweight and birth control effectiveness?

Hi Jirish, There are some physical and wellness factors that may mean the pill is not the best choice for someone, but weight by itself is not one of them. Plus, when your healthcare provider is helping you decide on birth control, they are factoring in things like weight and your health history whe...
by Sam W
Tue Aug 19, 2014 8:48 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Question
Replies: 6
Views: 2632

Re: Question

Hi Aj,

So, this is one of those scenarios where we're not 100% comfortable saying it had no effect on your pill. However, it takes 2-3 hours after taking a pill for the pill to absorb, so if the vomiting happened after that window, then it would not have had an effect.
by Sam W
Tue Aug 19, 2014 7:46 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My hymen didnt bleed When it tore. Is this Normal ?
Replies: 9
Views: 2698

Re: My hymen didnt bleed When it tore. Is this Normal ?

Hi Lisa, So, avoiding that pain has less to do with the corona/hymen and more to do with your own arousal level and how relaxed you feel. So, some ways to to increase your comfort and minimize the chances of discomfort are to make sure that you're feeling warmed up enough before penetration (you and...
by Sam W
Mon Aug 18, 2014 7:45 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: am i being too pushy?
Replies: 3
Views: 1843

Re: am i being too pushy?

Hi Noa, I think the most sound decision to make in this situation is to have a talk (if you haven't already) with your partner about boundaries around sexual stuff. That way, you'll both be talking explicitly about your desires and boundaries, so nobody is having to guess if they're pushing someone ...
by Sam W
Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:05 am
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: Thank you
Replies: 2
Views: 2606

Re: Thank you

Morad, thank you so much for your kind words, and we're so glad to hear that you've found our site helpful and welcoming!
by Sam W
Mon Aug 18, 2014 10:30 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Possible pregnancy risk?
Replies: 7
Views: 2741

Re: Possible pregnancy risk?

Hi Willow, If you've had what looked, felt, and came at the same time as your period, then you can assume that was your period, and that, by extension you're not pregnant. However, if you're still feeling like you need confirmation , taking a pregnancy test is something you can do to get that confir...
by Sam W
Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My hymen didnt bleed When it tore. Is this Normal ?
Replies: 9
Views: 2698

Re: My hymen didnt bleed When it tore. Is this Normal ?

Hi Lisa, It's likely that what you felt was your hymen (or corona) stretching. You can read more about that here: My Corona: The Anatomy Formerly Known as the Hymen & the Myths That Surround It You might also want to check out this piece, since it sounds like penetration is still causing some di...
by Sam W
Mon Aug 18, 2014 7:50 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Inducing periods
Replies: 3
Views: 1811

Re: Inducing periods

Hi hopee,

Nope, there is not really a way to induce a period. There are ways that a person can try to regulate their cycle (like via hormonal birth control), but not ways to make a period come exactly when you want it to.

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