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by Hel
Wed Mar 24, 2021 1:55 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: How do I ask...?
Replies: 13
Views: 1277

Re: How do I ask...?

So I did it! I gave him a blowjob and I actually liked it a lot. We didn’t do any deepthroating. I’m curious about it for another but I hate choking... I think it would be hot to have his dick further back in my mouth though. Any tips on how I can get used to having it further back??? Also, I felt r...
by Hel
Tue Mar 23, 2021 10:11 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: How do I ask...?
Replies: 13
Views: 1277

Re: How do I ask...?

Thank you for the loads of advice! Super helpful for me. :) I’ll ask him what he likes (though it is his first time as well so we’ll both be experimenting). I like the suggestion of asking him to let me know when he’s close to an orgasm.

Thanks for the article as well!
by Hel
Mon Mar 22, 2021 1:02 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: How do I ask...?
Replies: 13
Views: 1277

Re: How do I ask...?

So we talked and we’re planning on having oral sex soon! I’m excited. A little nervous too because I haven’t done this before. I know everyone’s preferences are different and stuff but are there general techniques that most guys like? I’ve read some articles and stuff on that... Also (I’m sure I’ll ...
by Hel
Sun Mar 21, 2021 1:10 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: How do I ask...?
Replies: 13
Views: 1277

Re: How do I ask...?

Thanks for the reply. My boyfriend and I did talk about the stuff we did the day after. We both really liked it, we just needed a little time to process since it’s new. But I think we’re ready to try again. We’re both pretty horny people, lol.we have talked pretty openly about sex/sexual stuff befor...
by Hel
Sat Mar 20, 2021 2:20 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: How do I ask...?
Replies: 13
Views: 1277

How do I ask...?

So I’m experimenting with more sexual things with my boyfriend. We’ve had some time to process the handjobs we gave each other and I’m feeling ambitious to try something new. I liked touching his penis but not the act of giving a handjob. I always like using my mouth for I intimate stuff though so I...
by Hel
Fri Mar 12, 2021 10:44 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: I'm in a weird emotional state...
Replies: 3
Views: 861

Re: I'm in a weird emotional state...

Well, now that I've thought about it, I think my emotional state isn't really about the sexual stuff. I am actually eagerly anticipating having more manual sex; a lot of my weird feelings are 'first time jitters' I think... not sure if that's a term people use, lol. I talked to my boyfriend about it...
by Hel
Fri Mar 12, 2021 8:43 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: I'm in a weird emotional state...
Replies: 3
Views: 861

I'm in a weird emotional state...

Like I mentioned in a previous topic, I was feeling kinda "off" and needy lately. I think a lot of it has to do with struggles with gender identity and thinking about my (awful) past relationship with my ex. So my current boyfriend and I did the whole fingering/handjob thing last night and...
by Hel
Thu Mar 11, 2021 10:01 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: How do I know if I’m close to an orgasm?
Replies: 2
Views: 771

Re: How do I know if I’m close to an orgasm?

Okay, thank you!
by Hel
Thu Mar 11, 2021 1:58 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: How do I know if I’m close to an orgasm?
Replies: 2
Views: 771

How do I know if I’m close to an orgasm?

So my boyfriend and I tried some new stuff. He fingered me and I gave him a hand job. It was actually all a good experience, which made me happy. The fingering felt good at first, then it was uncomfortable and I told him to stop, which he did right away. But after a few minutes I was ready to try ag...
by Hel
Mon Mar 08, 2021 2:05 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Replies: 13
Views: 2702

Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?

Yes, we’re really excited because we’ll be able to be in my house - lots of warmth, blankets, and rooms there! ;) I think both he and I are looking forward to trying out more fingering/touching each other, as well as just cuddling and hanging out. The cold really turns me off, if that’s an expressio...
by Hel
Mon Mar 08, 2021 1:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Feeling needy
Replies: 7
Views: 1464

Re: Feeling needy

Okay, yes that makes sense. Thanks for the advice!
by Hel
Mon Mar 08, 2021 1:52 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Replies: 13
Views: 2702

Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?

Update: So he and I were out tonight, and he asked if I wanted to try the whole fingering thing. It was exciting when he unzipped my jacket and touched my thighs and stuff. He (with my consent, of course) tried the whole rubbing my vagina through my underwear. Thing is, we were outside and it was r...
by Hel
Mon Mar 08, 2021 10:40 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Feeling needy
Replies: 7
Views: 1464

Re: Feeling needy

I think a lot of it is because we haven’t seen each other in a while. And I feel like we do have really good communication, which is something that I’m really grateful for. When I feel needy, a lot of it is just me craving his company, but most is the physical contact. Not even sexual - I just want ...
by Hel
Sun Mar 07, 2021 1:24 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Feeling needy
Replies: 7
Views: 1464

Re: Feeling needy

Hi, this is a long reply: I've talked to my boyfriend about my feelings this week, today actually. I was upset about how my ex-boyfriend treated me in the past (my ex was manipulative, and he made me feel like I couldn't share my feelings - luckily I feel like my current boyfriend and I have really ...
by Hel
Sun Mar 07, 2021 10:53 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Feeling needy
Replies: 7
Views: 1464

Feeling needy

I feel like I've been really needy in my current relationship, especially this week. I've been having this disconnect from reality, and been feeling upset about my ex and stuff, so I haven't had the best mindset this past week. I feel like I'm constantly asking my boyfriend out, wanting to make out ...
by Hel
Sat Mar 06, 2021 2:35 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Replies: 13
Views: 2702

Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?

Update: So he and I were out tonight, and he asked if I wanted to try the whole fingering thing. It was exciting when he unzipped my jacket and touched my thighs and stuff. He (with my consent, of course) tried the whole rubbing my vagina through my underwear. Thing is, we were outside and it was re...
by Hel
Fri Mar 05, 2021 11:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I feel upset and I don’t know why
Replies: 2
Views: 580

Re: I feel upset and I don’t know why

Thank you for the reply. It’s relieving to know that my feelings about being more sexual are normal. I’ll talk to my boyfriend about my needs too. I still feel upset and I just want to be with him right now - even if it’s just holding hands. I guess it’s hard for me to feel like I need someone, even...
by Hel
Fri Mar 05, 2021 2:39 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I feel upset and I don’t know why
Replies: 2
Views: 580

I feel upset and I don’t know why

So my boyfriend wants to finger me, and I want it too. Like, I want it a lot. But I feel really weird about it. Because it’s kind of a big deal. Like, our relationship is great and I think that being more sexual is making it even better. :) It’s just kind of overwhelming. I think we might try it for...
by Hel
Tue Mar 02, 2021 1:30 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Replies: 13
Views: 2702

Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?

Okay, I’ll definitely think about what turns me on and relaxes me, and I’ll talk to my boyfriend about it beforehand - and during obviously. Hopefully it will be a fun experience. Thanks for the advice!
by Hel
Tue Mar 02, 2021 8:17 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Replies: 13
Views: 2702

Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?

I’ll definitely talk to him and come up with some things he and I are both willing to try. Are there any tips for being relaxed?
by Hel
Mon Mar 01, 2021 1:52 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Replies: 13
Views: 2702

Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?

Okay, I’ll talk to him about lube. I’m sure we can get it at the local pharmacy. I also wanted to ask: how can we make sure I’m extra aroused and wet? I know he and I have just started being this sexual with each other so maybe that’s why I’m nervous about trying to get aroused - I’ve been aroused w...
by Hel
Mon Mar 01, 2021 12:24 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Replies: 13
Views: 2702

Re: What can I expect my first time being fingered?

Yes that definitely makes sense. Communication definitely is key. Is it okay if we don’t use lube? Like, if I’m aroused and wet would it still be okay? Since it’s our first time doing something like this, I’m not sure how far we’ll go - if he’ll just touch me or actually insert his fingers. Depends ...
by Hel
Sun Feb 28, 2021 1:21 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What can I expect my first time being fingered?
Replies: 13
Views: 2702

What can I expect my first time being fingered?

So my boyfriend and I have started to talk about sex and be more sexual around each other. It's been really great so far - the conversations about sex, touching nipples, etc. He asked if he could finger/masturbate me too, and I said I wasn't ready for that tonight, since it was a lot to process. How...
by Hel
Sat Feb 27, 2021 2:27 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Should I come out to my boyfriend?
Replies: 8
Views: 2805

Re: Should I come out to my boyfriend?

I wanted to share my success with coming out to my boyfriend. He already knows about my gender fluidity and has told be he’d like me no matter what gender I am - I told him same goes for him. He’s really supportive of my gender and it’s great. Today I was like, I think I’m pansexual and he just said...
by Hel
Sat Feb 27, 2021 2:07 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Don't want to overwhelm bf
Replies: 3
Views: 437

Re: Don't want to overwhelm bf

So funny story, Today my boyfriend and I were hanging out and it was actually really ironic that I posted about being more sexual today. Because today we flirted in kind of a sexy way - puns about being thirsty, etc. That’s all somewhat usual. But then we somehow ended up mentioning sex, and he actu...

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