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by Elise
Sat Dec 18, 2021 3:41 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Can I take Yasmin with Amoxicillin tablets?
Replies: 3
Views: 1312

Re: Can I take Yasmin with Amoxicillin tablets?

Hi Juliaho90, whilst it is best to ask at the clinic about the interaction between all your medications, current research seems to indicate that amoxicillin, and most other common antibiotics don't interact with birth control for most people. You can read more about this here: Something You Can Worr...
by Elise
Sat Dec 18, 2021 3:26 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend
Replies: 16
Views: 40326

Re: Regretting a threesome with my boyfriend

Hi there Rach931105, you're right that adding someone new to a sexual relationship can bring up a lot of complicated feelings. Therefore this is important to consider, including how they as a person, would factor into this. There are a few things you can unpack here about non-monogamy, communication...
by Elise
Sat Dec 18, 2021 2:54 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I've never trusted anyone with my heart
Replies: 9
Views: 2552

Re: I've never trusted anyone with my heart

Hi there girlplayer34, this is actually a really common anxiety that people have who come to sex and dating in their 20s. Whilst it may seem daunting, I can reassure that with communication and trust (which is really needed regardless of the experience of either partner in a sexual relationship), ma...
by Elise
Sat Dec 18, 2021 2:40 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: My girlfriends Vagina is so tight I fear
Replies: 2
Views: 3521

Re: My girlfriends Vagina is so tight I fear

Hi there TakeControl, and welcome to Scarleteen. You are correct that it takes a lot of self-control and bodily control to use the withdrawal method properly, the difficulty you describe yourself having with this method is an experience many have, and you can read more about it on this page, here . ...
by Elise
Fri Dec 17, 2021 3:10 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I recently found out that my boyfriend had masturbated to a photo of his ex gf’s sister what do I do?
Replies: 25
Views: 30332

Re: I recently found out that my boyfriend had masturbated to a photo of his ex gf’s sister what do I do?

Hi there rahrah300, with regards to this update, thank you for sharing that both you and your boyfriend have anxiety disorders that you are working through, as this is good to keep in mind as you navigate this situation together. How would you feel about, rather than ruminating on details of this in...
by Elise
Fri Dec 17, 2021 2:35 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I'm 16 and interested in sex
Replies: 1
Views: 1363

Re: I'm 16 and interested in sex

Hi there BunsB43, and welcome to Scarleteen. Before we get started, you'll see that your post has been approved, but edited. This was to remove your username on an IM service as we don't allow direct messages between users for everyone's safety. To your question, I'm glad to hear that you have been ...
by Elise
Fri Dec 17, 2021 1:43 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: self karada tie?
Replies: 6
Views: 4513

Re: self karada tie?

Like with most learned skills, they can be a bit tricky to get right at first. Did you know that Shibari classes are things that exist IRL with trained folks running them? Of course, it is important to do your research and see if they are reputable (getting recommendations from local kink communitie...
by Elise
Fri Dec 17, 2021 1:40 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 18
Views: 13028

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

Congratulations to you both! 🥳
by Elise
Fri Dec 10, 2021 3:42 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Reconnecting With Someone
Replies: 68
Views: 24782

Re: Reconnecting With Someone

Hi MusicNerd, glad to hear that you had a good time hanging out with this person, and will get to again 😊 It is totally natural to be nervous about asking this kind of thing, as it is a bit of a vulnerable thing to put yourself out there, but is the best way to get a clear answer and know where your...
by Elise
Fri Dec 10, 2021 3:11 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 289
Views: 45254

Re: Just need some reassurance

Hi sky, sorry to hear you're having a bit of a hard time at the moment. Yes, sometimes therapy can be challenging and hard, and sometimes yes, triggers are trigger as we discover and find ways to heal from the experiences that cause them, and explore the reasons behind them. From what you said earli...
by Elise
Fri Dec 10, 2021 3:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Going off the pill
Replies: 9
Views: 1928

Re: Going off the pill

Hi Alexa, so glad to hear that Scarleteen has been a useful resource for you and helped you to understand part of yourself better 😊 With regards to your questions about side effects of the pill, your experience is a very common one. Essentially, our bodies react to changes in hormone levels, big and...
by Elise
Tue Dec 07, 2021 3:22 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Idk I'm scatterbrained right now(sorry if it's all spaghetti and doesn't make sense)
Replies: 7
Views: 1501

Re: Idk I'm scatterbrained right now(sorry if it's all spaghetti and doesn't make sense)

Hi there AZbb, firstly, no apologies needed for your writing here, this all made sense. It seems like this encounter has left you feeling quite activated and anxious, which is a totally valid response, and I'm sorry that you're feeling like that right now. I hope you have been able to do some soothi...
by Elise
Fri Dec 03, 2021 6:56 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: no sensation when masturbating
Replies: 35
Views: 6766

Re: no sensation when masturbating

Hi Crow, thanks for taking a look at the article, sorry that is logistically tricky at the moment. Some of the items on the list can be bought quite cheaply (under $10) at a Walmart or similar. If you feel comfortable answering, is it an access to shops, or not having the finances to access anything...
by Elise
Fri Dec 03, 2021 4:04 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: no sensation when masturbating
Replies: 35
Views: 6766

Re: no sensation when masturbating

Hi Crow, with regards to trying a vibrator, we have an article on Scarleteen that has instructions on how to safely make and use a DIY vibrator here, which you may find useful for your experimentation: D.I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition As you mention, being neurodiverse is something that can effect ...
by Elise
Fri Nov 26, 2021 5:33 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Im struggling to cope with the fact im not 12 anymore
Replies: 14
Views: 3089

Re: Im struggling to cope with the fact im not 12 anymore

Hi there miskosou, we could help with options in a more confidential setting on our live chat service, which is 1:1. It's open at the following times: Monday: 2-5PM PST (10PM Monday - 1AM Tuesday GMT) Tuesday: 2-5PM PST (10PM Tuesday - 1AM Wednesday GMT) Friday: 2-5PM PST (10PM Friday - 1AM Saturday...
by Elise
Fri Nov 26, 2021 5:18 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Reconnecting With Someone
Replies: 68
Views: 24782

Re: Reconnecting With Someone

Glad to hear that things are going in a positive direction for you, and timing this in a way that works well with your therapy sessions sounds like a good idea. Yes, do let us know how you go :)
by Elise
Fri Nov 26, 2021 5:16 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Is it weird that I actually want to be grounded?
Replies: 3
Views: 4563

Re: Is it weird that I actually want to be grounded?

Hi Sadie1123, continuing on with what Siân has said - I think the two concepts that you are looking at exploring here are different and it is important to consider a few things when you're exploring them mentally. Also, you're not a bad personal at all for being curious. It's just important to think...
by Elise
Fri Nov 26, 2021 4:23 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Help with Anusol Cream
Replies: 5
Views: 2479

Re: Help with Anusol Cream

Glad it worked well for you! Wishing you a good recovery and do feel free to come back to our boards for any future questions you may have :)
by Elise
Thu Nov 25, 2021 4:08 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Too excited,how to get calm before finding cervix?
Replies: 9
Views: 3794

Re: Too excited,how to get calm before finding cervix?

Hi there iloveeveryone, and thanks for your question. Firstly, it is okay if you are excited and a bit nervous about trying this new thing, if you're still able to insert your finger in your vaginal canal, you'll still be able to get a sense of your cervix height. Your cervix's position can change a...
by Elise
Thu Nov 25, 2021 2:12 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Books on reproduction
Replies: 7
Views: 2135

Re: Books on reproduction

Hi there Somesh, I'm sorry that you struggled with depression through that scare, but glad to hear that our articles were able to assist. Before getting into some book recommendations, I will post some of our in-depth articles on pregnancy here, in case you haven't read those yet or would like to re...
by Elise
Sun Nov 21, 2021 3:55 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I cant masturbate
Replies: 6
Views: 4552

Re: I cant masturbate

Hi there eeeeie, I'm sorry to hear that you are dealing with this intense fear about masturbation at the moment, it sounds like something that is causing you quite a bit of distress. A lot of people experience frustration working out what works for them when they are first experimenting with what br...
by Elise
Sun Nov 21, 2021 3:40 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: boyfriend issue?
Replies: 14
Views: 3360

Re: boyfriend issue?

Hi there Cecilia and welcome to Scarleteen. I'm sorry to hear that your boyfriend has been behaving in this way to you: whilst you mention at first that he is "lovely" the way that he is behaving towards you, In terms of the way he is trying to control your weight, eating and coerce you in...
by Elise
Sat Nov 20, 2021 11:06 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Help with Anusol Cream
Replies: 5
Views: 2479

Re: Help with Anusol Cream

Hey GS_6 - two positions you can try are to stand, but with one foot on a stool or chair or small box, and the other could be to lay down on your side (on your bed or an excercise mat or similar), with one leg straight and bring the knee of the other towards your chest. If you don't want to worry ab...
by Elise
Fri Nov 19, 2021 1:51 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Just need some reassurance
Replies: 289
Views: 45254

Re: Just need some reassurance

Hi sky, sounds like your last therapy session was a more challenging one for you, and that is totally okay! Sometimes, it will be hard, particularly as you learn these new skills and being in a new situation like this can be challenging. When we learn new things, they often start off harder as we le...
by Elise
Thu Nov 11, 2021 4:34 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Love Triangle? Try Octagon.
Replies: 6
Views: 1841

Re: Love Triangle? Try Octagon.

Hi there spottedowl, I'm glad to hear that chatting with us here on Scarleteen helped you feel heard and that you are able to approach your self-reflection from a place where you feel optimistic and have supportive friendships too. I'm sorry to hear that mean person in middle school decided to say t...