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by Sabine
Tue Jun 02, 2020 2:15 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Crush situation got more complicated
Replies: 9
Views: 1293

Re: Crush situation got more complicated

Also, if she does match back with me and/or accept my friend request, how do you think I should slowly pick up where the interaction left of, yet introduce the idea of videochatting? (Again, she wants to see more of Austria)
by Sabine
Tue Jun 02, 2020 2:06 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Crush situation got more complicated
Replies: 9
Views: 1293

Re: Crush situation got more complicated

Yes, I have, many times and have done some techniques related to it before the whole Instagram shutdown. I asked someone how to deal with uncertainty and she said to focus on how what you know is certain and I do know more that is certain such as: - She matched with me twice - She doesn’t get much n...
by Sabine
Sun May 31, 2020 8:45 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Crush situation got more complicated
Replies: 9
Views: 1293

Re: Crush situation got more complicated

Yeah, I will be sad for that indeed. Also, she has NOT blocked me on Letterboxd, but no one can contact each other on Letterboxd (at least not yet). I have many, but its not for the long term. I am beginning DBT and I want to do expose therapy, but I truly miss this connection (for whatever this is).
by Sabine
Sun May 31, 2020 8:31 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Feeling like I shouldn’t contact friends
Replies: 9
Views: 1189

Re: Feeling like I shouldn’t contact friends

Normally that goes very well and it goes amazing.
I’m trying to manage it with DBT and I am thinking of doing some expose therapy. Other than that some distractions, but that works temporarily.
by Sabine
Sun May 31, 2020 7:17 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Feeling like I shouldn’t contact friends
Replies: 9
Views: 1189

Feeling like I shouldn’t contact friends

Now, I have contacted my friends, as in video chatted them last week and have texted some of them. I want to, However, due to my moods and sometimes feeling like I disturb them, I feel like I shouldn’t contact them. My intrusive thoughts also come into play thinking ehhh, why would they care or they...
by Sabine
Sun May 31, 2020 6:27 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Crush situation got more complicated
Replies: 9
Views: 1293

Crush situation got more complicated

So, my crush’s social media account is no longer available and that was only one of the means to contact her. I felt numb and a little devastated. But, she didn’t block me, she deleted her entire social media account that we followed each other on (that she linked me up to btw). She didn’t see the m...
by Sabine
Thu May 21, 2020 7:56 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to tell a bad texter you love them
Replies: 3
Views: 783

Re: How to tell a bad texter you love them

Yes. Also that sounds like great advice, I won’t do that right now, but I may do that when I meet her or get to know her more. I mean, I really want to be with her and I am willing to wait out her much slower pace because of our common interests such as the very same movies (Hereditary, Parasite, Ex...
by Sabine
Thu May 21, 2020 7:01 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to tell a bad texter you love them
Replies: 3
Views: 783

How to tell a bad texter you love them

This is a follow up to How to Tell a Bad Texter Likes You : I want to tell my crush I love her and would like to date her, but more importantly meet her when I come back to the USA. I want to try to use Scarleteen’s tips on asking her whether that is doable to date her or not, but at the same time, ...
by Sabine
Thu May 21, 2020 5:59 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why can’t I get myself to contact my friends?
Replies: 1
Views: 545

Why can’t I get myself to contact my friends?

I want to contact (and when I mean contact, I mean video call) more people, especially old friends and new people, specifically in the USA, where I live. I got all the resources, people and more time now that school is off, however ... I don’t for some reason contact them. I often forget or think th...
by Sabine
Thu May 21, 2020 1:51 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Replies: 8
Views: 1032

Re: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you

Like I am also really confused because on the dating site she deleted her profile picture again, so I requested to be her friend and I clicked the ❤️ button on the new profile. So should I have, since I am also following her on the social media sight. She also saw my story, but didn’t read my messag...
by Sabine
Thu May 21, 2020 1:43 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Replies: 8
Views: 1032

Re: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you

Thank you so much Alice. She is pretty interested about what is like being Austria and loves my graffiti pictures that I send her. She wants to even go to Austria. So, is that a sign that she is interested in me as a person?
by Sabine
Wed May 20, 2020 12:08 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Replies: 8
Views: 1032

Re: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you

Yes, probably when she replies or when we videochat. I hope she does very soon on either site.

Also, I want to explain my situation to her but how do to that? Like I live in California, but I am in Austria for the time being because my American parents work here?
by Sabine
Tue May 19, 2020 11:03 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Replies: 8
Views: 1032

Re: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you

Hey that sounds doable! I really though want to do it in the most nice and sexiest way possible. Like flirty way, like first date lesbian couples do.
by Sabine
Tue May 19, 2020 10:13 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you
Replies: 8
Views: 1032

How to tell if someone who is bad at texting likes you

I have this crush and I want to know whether she likes me and especially during quarantine, I really want to know whether she will have some relationship (or friendship) during or after its over. Some the backstory: I met her on an online dating site where we matched. We hit it off because we have a...

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