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by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 8:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: apologizing
Replies: 2
Views: 1906

Re: apologizing

as an admitted over-apologizer myself, I've found myself guilty of apologizing and then turning the apology into a sort of narrative itself, going into far too much detail to the point where the original sentiment is lost, or describing things in a way that can sometimes unintentionally end up being...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 7:49 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 13909

Re: Good love songs?

Just The Two of us is another
by bikinksterboy
Tue Jan 15, 2019 7:48 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How Do You Choose a Partner
Replies: 5
Views: 5449

Re: How Do You Choose a Partner

a lot of this info is probably mangled in some way or another because none of these relationships except the last ever were in person so it's all kind of a blur (does this count as thread bumping/necromancy btw? if so is that sort of thing allowed here? I don't remember)
by bikinksterboy
Fri Jan 04, 2019 2:22 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 5945

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

yeah, I still use that email
by bikinksterboy
Thu Jan 03, 2019 6:13 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 5945

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

(I think that I might be in a place now to at least try out the whole volunteer thing btw)
by bikinksterboy
Wed Jan 02, 2019 6:16 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 13909

Re: Good love songs?

bikinksterboy wrote:"Take On Me" of course, but keep in mind that one may be


I just now realized that I never finished this sentence. I don't know what I was even going to say.
by bikinksterboy
Wed Dec 19, 2018 12:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How Do You Choose a Partner
Replies: 5
Views: 5449

Re: How Do You Choose a Partner

I 6- Following this I met someone through the circle of friends that had formed around me and the former partner who had rushed me into things, and with them it was more of a situation where we started doing sexual and intimate things but hadn't really thought about the nature of our relationship u...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Nov 28, 2018 3:33 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 5945

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

(yeah, that email is still active, and right now I don't know but we can talk more over email or PM)
by bikinksterboy
Tue Nov 27, 2018 5:57 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 5945

Re: obsession over possible ghoster ex?

I think it's mainly because of how committed I am to my current relationship, things being the way they were that we never really broke up, I'm sort of afraid that some of those feelings will come back
by bikinksterboy
Tue Nov 27, 2018 5:47 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: obsession over possible ghoster ex?
Replies: 13
Views: 5945

obsession over possible ghoster ex?

Today, I sent a message to the number one of my exes (whom I technically never actually broke up with, we just had a long-distance relationship and lost contact with each other, and her number was dead for the longest time) gave me, and I got a response from a totally different person! For a long ti...
by bikinksterboy
Mon Nov 26, 2018 4:10 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Two truths and a lie
Replies: 38
Views: 10862

Re: Two truths and a lie

solalreclipse94 I'm doubting the one about Panic! At The Disco
-I’ve been a fan of The All-American Rejects since I was 9ish
-I extremely dislike the genre of high fantasy
-One of my cats is named after a prince, and the rest of his family is likewise named after the British royal family
by bikinksterboy
Fri Nov 16, 2018 3:22 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Condom review
Replies: 1
Views: 2762

Condom review

tomorrow I'm meeting up with my long-distance partner for his birthday, and as of right now it's likely that we'll have sex. before I go running off for that, could I get a quick rundown of condom procedure?
by bikinksterboy
Wed Nov 07, 2018 1:40 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What needs to be present for you to feel comfortable being intimate with someone?
Replies: 3
Views: 3574

Re: What needs to be present for you to feel comfortable being intimate with someone?

Likewise how people behave around others/honesty is a huge factor in intimacy for me, but in terms of energy levels I sometimes like when another person has a little higher energy investment as I do, because that can make me rise to that same level of engagement. Generally though being on the same p...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Nov 07, 2018 1:29 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How Do You Choose a Partner
Replies: 5
Views: 5449

Re: How Do You Choose a Partner

I think I'm in semi-agreement with Hollytiger about the ideas people have about what they'd like in partners becoming blurry in practice and when emotions are high. When I've intentionally sought out partners I've mostly found myself making more active choices early on, but relationships that didn't...
by bikinksterboy
Fri Oct 19, 2018 4:40 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Who are you comfortable talking about sex with?
Replies: 8
Views: 5332

Re: Who are you comfortable talking about sex with?

I'd say I'm comfortable talking about sex as a real possibility in the context of myself only really around my partner and a close friend of ours, but sex in general, porn, sexuality are topics for most people I'm close with. My parents I feel I could talk about sex, like I feel they'd be understand...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Oct 07, 2018 7:57 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Getting Kinky
Replies: 2
Views: 2594

Re: Getting Kinky

The BDSMTest is not the end all be all of kink, and it can subjectively be more or less useful for different people; it's more of a general indicator of what a person is probably into. If he's willing to take the test, I'm sure he's open at least to the idea of some kinky things, just try not to ove...
by bikinksterboy
Fri Sep 21, 2018 1:26 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: What's the sex ed curriculum where you're from?
Replies: 2
Views: 2539

Re: What's the sex ed curriculum where you're from?

having gone to a private school in one of the most liberal states in the US,my education was probably not the norm. There was a designated sex ed teacher, and no standard curriculum. We were taught about almost all types of sex (BDSM etc were briefly mentioned but not focused on), the ways sex is de...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 02, 2018 11:36 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?
Replies: 3
Views: 3097

Re: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?

statistically I don't know how common or uncommon this sort of behavior is at an early age but in my experience there's a lot of anecdotal evidence that it is more "normal". and if it isn't does that matter? one of the things I keep seeing staff say here is that there's no such thing as no...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 02, 2018 11:33 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?
Replies: 3
Views: 3097

Re: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?

well the goal of masturbation isn't always orgasm, I think that's a pretty big assumption to say that the goal of masturbation after puberty *is* definitively to achieve orgasm
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 22, 2018 7:55 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.
Replies: 3
Views: 2434

Re: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.

I found this article, which may help. Staff can look over this and remove if it's inaccurate or problematic
https://www.tbotech.com/thumbcuffs-what ... e-used.htm
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 22, 2018 7:50 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.
Replies: 3
Views: 2434

Re: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.

right away I guess one of the big risks could be the cuffs blocking blood circulation, and most of the risks that are associated with handcuffs are probably also present with thumb and toe cuffs.
by bikinksterboy
Mon Aug 20, 2018 8:37 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Have you ever had relationship expectations that turned out to be unrealistic?
Replies: 7
Views: 4066

Re: Have you ever had relationship expectations that turned out to be unrealistic?

I used to think I'd be able to "fix" or "make better" people just by being in a relationship with them. It was probably from a place of naiveté more than anything, assuming I could just make years of trauma or intense emotions built up over months simply go away
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 9:06 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 15
Views: 7982

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

met again on Sunday! it was great
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 9:06 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
Replies: 19
Views: 10402

Re: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?

-halloween again! 80s horror marathon with bf and binge-watching Castlevania season 2~
-BF's birthday<3 he's so much to me and I finally get to give him a proper gift this time!
-Shazam! looks like a great movie
-Rosh Hashanah celebrations with family
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:56 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: First starting to date
Replies: 5
Views: 2855

Re: First starting to date

update: I suppose you can say ive dated physically now because my partner and I finally Met in person about a month ago and again on Sunday

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