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by bikinksterboy
Tue Sep 27, 2016 2:08 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: should I tell him?
Replies: 10
Views: 3307

Re: should I tell him?

so yeah in the end you're probably right that its best if i just talk to him
by bikinksterboy
Tue Sep 27, 2016 2:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: should I tell him?
Replies: 10
Views: 3307

Re: should I tell him?

sorry if I'm rambling, contradictory, making this harder for myself etc.
by bikinksterboy
Tue Sep 27, 2016 2:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: should I tell him?
Replies: 10
Views: 3307

Re: should I tell him?

and I've already essentially told him that I don't expect it to last forever, but he's made it clear he has romantic feelings for me, as well as the more general kind of love expressed in the piece you pointed me to, so as I've said before even though i know this isn't binding i subconsciously feel ...
by bikinksterboy
Tue Sep 27, 2016 1:58 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: should I tell him?
Replies: 10
Views: 3307

Re: should I tell him?

since I've had my fair share of relationships that fell apart because of impossible requests like these, proclamations of unconditional permanent love and the like
by bikinksterboy
Tue Sep 27, 2016 1:58 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: should I tell him?
Replies: 10
Views: 3307

Re: should I tell him?

thank you, this article helped a lot, and I think what I'm most motivated by here is the fear that I'll somehow let him down, promise more than I can give, and grow more attachment and less love as the article puts it
by bikinksterboy
Mon Sep 26, 2016 5:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: should I tell him?
Replies: 10
Views: 3307

should I tell him?

I'm bi and for the longest time have thought myself to be strictly hetero romantic. I recently went into a relationship with a guy, and I'm convinced he loves me, but I'm not so sure If how I feel about him is "true love" or simply friendship with the added bonus of intimacy and sexuality,...
by bikinksterboy
Mon Sep 26, 2016 4:50 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: anal
Replies: 2
Views: 1202

anal

why do I see so few articles on here about solo prostate play? I know the majority of it has already been covered, but I still feel as though there's an opportunity to educate and help more guys (and possibly trans girls) than you are now. I don't know if this is even in the right place, I'm still f...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 25, 2016 6:42 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: self-teasing concerns
Replies: 1
Views: 1701

self-teasing concerns

lately, to play out my kinky desires I've been almost ejaculating but stopping before i can, seeing how long i can last, does this have any possible negative implications?
by bikinksterboy
Fri Sep 23, 2016 1:50 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Masturbation Myths
Replies: 8
Views: 4576

Re: Masturbation Myths

that you'll just run out of semen one day. another that at least sounds plausible on the outset is that if you don't use both hands one arm will be super ripped and the other will be weak and lanky
by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 11, 2016 10:58 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: long distance
Replies: 5
Views: 1724

Re: long distance

I didn't really have a specific question i mind, come to think of it I really was just sort of posting this as a way to think through it myself rather than to receive advice, sorry for wasting your time
by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 11, 2016 8:58 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: long distance
Replies: 5
Views: 1724

Re: long distance

sorry, I meant more specifically the articles with advice regarding intimacy, communication with partners/readiness, and the like
by bikinksterboy
Sat Sep 10, 2016 6:18 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?
Replies: 18
Views: 10155

Re: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?

I've learned that I'm attracted to both boys and girls, and not necessarily in the same way or the same amount, and that my anus isn't an off-limits gross zone
by bikinksterboy
Sat Sep 10, 2016 10:26 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: long distance
Replies: 5
Views: 1724

long distance

I love this site and have read many of your articles on communication and other things, and they seem to have the right idea, but how would all this apply to a long distance relationship with a low likelihood of either partner meeting the other physically?
by bikinksterboy
Fri Sep 09, 2016 2:41 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: kink
Replies: 1
Views: 1422

kink

this is just a general question, do kinks always have a specific "reason?" am I truly into a kink if its main appeal to me is just the taboo factor rather than anything about the kink itself? is this invalidating those who "legitimately" enjoy these things?
by bikinksterboy
Fri Sep 09, 2016 2:30 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: What is your "Coming Out" Story?
Replies: 8
Views: 8163

Re: What is your "Coming Out" Story?

I don't really consider myself to have much of one. I just sort of told my close friends casually to positive reactions, and don't feel the need to tell my parents since I know they wouldn't care either way
by bikinksterboy
Sat Sep 03, 2016 10:19 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: What does "sexy" feel like to you?
Replies: 6
Views: 4111

Re: What does "sexy" feel like to you?

my "sexy" tends to be similar to the last part of kittens' post, but it also includes traditionally "Feminine" things like panties, as for dances and the like I just can't do it, no sense of rhythm, unless booty-shaking in private counts. also when my partner compliments a specif...
by bikinksterboy
Thu Sep 01, 2016 2:46 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: How has your gender expression evolved?
Replies: 17
Views: 10494

Re: How has your gender expression evolved?

it hasn't really changed for me much, I've always been a cis male, probably always will be, but lately I've become more accepting of forms of expression outside what society deems to be more masculine, yet nothing that id consider girly, just different ways of expressing my male-ness
by bikinksterboy
Thu Sep 01, 2016 2:43 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: More Gender non-specific awesomeness!
Replies: 2
Views: 2426

Re: More Gender non-specific awesomeness!

this is nothing new though, unisex clothing has always existed its just never been pushed like gendered clothing has
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 30, 2016 5:34 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: toys
Replies: 2
Views: 1579

Re: toys

and btw to clarify, the only electric razors I know of in the house, one has an attachment on the handle end for charging, and the other has a cable on the end, also for power and I'd rather not mess around with that
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 30, 2016 5:31 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: toys
Replies: 2
Views: 1579

toys

what items could I,as a cis teen male use as a makeshift anal vibrator, preferably without my parents knowing or having to buy things. I've tried a toothbrush but it was too wide on the end, so I'm basically stuck
by bikinksterboy
Fri Aug 26, 2016 3:52 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: fantasy confusion
Replies: 1
Views: 1556

fantasy confusion

how common is it that in my sexual fantasies, I don't think of a specific person or scenario but just on what my imagined lover and I are doing? like I don't often imagine names, dialogue, even a consistent partner always, all that usually comes to mind is just stuff relating to the sexual act itsel...
by bikinksterboy
Thu Aug 25, 2016 6:59 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: panty-wearing confusion
Replies: 1
Views: 1674

panty-wearing confusion

I, a cis male, like to occasionally masturbate in and otherwise wear panties because it sexually excites and turns me on. would this be cross dressing or a simple underwear kink?
by bikinksterboy
Thu Aug 25, 2016 6:54 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: What is one AWESOME thing your body can do?
Replies: 6
Views: 3616

Re: What is one AWESOME thing your body can do?

my immune system is amazing. I've eaten so much literal and figurative dirt that i've recovered fairly quickly from nearly every virus and infection i've gotten
by bikinksterboy
Thu Aug 25, 2016 6:52 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: The Body Positivity Thread!
Replies: 8
Views: 3476

Re: The Body Positivity Thread!

hair,stomach. no particular reason why.
by bikinksterboy
Thu Aug 25, 2016 6:37 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: part name question (newbie)
Replies: 3
Views: 2051

part name question (newbie)

what should I call the vagina, vulva, and other female genitalia without sounding stiff or scientific, but also without having to resort to slang like pussy, twat, cunt etc.?

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