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by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:54 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: What's your concept of your gender like?
Replies: 24
Views: 16184

Re: What's your concept of your gender like?

okay so half of my rant there makes little sense to me now. I'm confident in my being male, but to say right now that I don't have a feminine side or that doing traditionally feminine things doesn't excite me partially because of said femininity would be a lie
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:52 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: "closeted" not out of circumstance?
Replies: 3
Views: 5913

Re: "closeted" not out of circumstance?

an update: I came out to my parents on the same day I told them about my partner and they accept me wholeheartedly!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:50 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: What is your "Coming Out" Story?
Replies: 8
Views: 8190

Re: What is your "Coming Out" Story?

update: I came out to my parents on the same day I told them about my partner and they accept me wholeheartedly!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:49 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: How has your gender expression evolved?
Replies: 17
Views: 10558

Re: How has your gender expression evolved?

update: my actual expression hasn't changed, but now I'm more comfortable in understanding and accepting my feminine side and that I like things like skirts because of their feminine associations and that's okay
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:46 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?
Replies: 18
Views: 10197

Re: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?

an update:in the past 2 years I've become more flexible (in both ways hehe) and become more comfortable in my own skin in relation to partners, and I've learned how to properly shave my genital region
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:42 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: power bottom?
Replies: 1
Views: 4721

Re: power bottom?

yo this thread still exists
by bikinksterboy
Thu Aug 02, 2018 3:40 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 15
Views: 8030

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

Oh,I’m sorry I failed to mention that. Yeah, we’re long distance seeing as we live in different states
by bikinksterboy
Thu Aug 02, 2018 3:15 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 15
Views: 8030

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

we met up in person for the first time last month! it was great!!
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:23 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Has our recent culture changed your sex life?
Replies: 6
Views: 3884

Re: Has our recent culture changed your sex life?

hearing about changes in the rights of LGBTQ+ individuals to adopt has got me concerned in the past about my future with my partner as we had discussed children before and worries that that possibility could be cut off were definitely there
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:20 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sex Toys
Replies: 3
Views: 3945

Re: Sex Toys

I've used a spare hairbrush as a DIY sex toy, but more recently I haven't had non-shared items to use
are all flashlight-and-tenga-like toys necessarily single-use items?
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:16 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What's your favourite Scarleteen article?
Replies: 7
Views: 4784

Re: What's your favourite Scarleteen article?

my answer will likely change within a month, but http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/yes_no_maybe_so_a_sexual_inventory_stocklist has been infinitely helpful in assessing what I really want and am comfortable with and in preparing me to initiate conversations with partners about what they want ...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:08 am
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: What's "Real Sex?" (Seriously.)
Replies: 14
Views: 12834

Re: What's "Real Sex?" (Seriously.)

since I first became aware of kinds of sex other than intercourse I've always sort of thought "yeah, that's just another kind of sex." it just made sense to me. I suppose I have still taken some things to be "foreplay" but I don't lump foreplay activities like manual, making out,...
by bikinksterboy
Thu May 31, 2018 7:29 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
Replies: 19
Views: 10466

Re: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?

meeting my boyfriend in July~ so excited!!!
by bikinksterboy
Thu May 31, 2018 7:28 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 15
Views: 8030

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

still going strong!
by bikinksterboy
Thu May 31, 2018 7:20 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 13977

Re: Good love songs?

okay! Vocaloid time! this one I think is really beautiful - Wrinkle performed by Gumi This is so saccharine I might as well be diabetic, I love it - Rin Rin Signal performed by the Kagamine Twins (Rin and Len) this is absolutely beautiful - One Hundred Years of Love performed by the one and only Hat...
by bikinksterboy
Thu Mar 22, 2018 6:13 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: When Was the First Time You Saw Yourself in a Story
Replies: 9
Views: 5039

Re: When Was the First Time You Saw Yourself in a Story

An addendum: I guess you could say various vampires and other such characters in fiction who have assumed multiple guises of different genders and thus been ‘heterosexual’ with males and females counts, in which case I’d include Doctor Who among others. Also, other than sexuality one of the first ti...
by bikinksterboy
Fri Mar 09, 2018 8:43 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: should I tell him?
Replies: 10
Views: 3326

Re: should I tell him?

said guy I broke up with and I currently am with someone else and have been for over a year, as documented in my other threads
by bikinksterboy
Wed Jan 24, 2018 7:39 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 13977

Re: Good love songs?

as cheesy as it sounds, I'd check out some old Rick Astley songs. he's just so earnest and shit. none of that "ay girl i love you bitch" stuff
by bikinksterboy
Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:15 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 15
Views: 8030

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

it's been over a year now!
by bikinksterboy
Mon Nov 06, 2017 10:12 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 15
Views: 8030

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

almost 11 now!
by bikinksterboy
Thu Nov 02, 2017 8:32 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
Replies: 19
Views: 10466

Re: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?

-Chanukah. it's one of the few Jewish holidays my family celebrates and it's nice to come together just with my immediate family -my sibling's birthday in January -thanksgiving. FOOD! oh and also extended family coming together -my lovely boyfriend's birthday this month -the premiere of Star Wars: T...
by bikinksterboy
Sun Oct 29, 2017 9:09 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: What's your concept of your gender like?
Replies: 24
Views: 16184

Re: What's your concept of your gender like?

my concept of gender is kinda strange and self-contradictory. I simultaneously acknowledge and recognize it as a thing in the universe, and acknowledge how much of a constantly changing human creation it is. for myself, though, gender is a pretty simple(even though I'll inevitably complicate it in d...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Oct 25, 2017 8:47 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: self karada tie?
Replies: 2
Views: 1648

self karada tie?

(hypothetically) for one who has little to no experience with rope, would making a non-restraining or barely restraining karada tie, rope dress, whatever you want to call it on oneself be inadvisable?
by bikinksterboy
Wed Sep 27, 2017 7:43 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 13977

Re: Good love songs?

"digital love" by daft punk. it's a simple song about dreaming about a loved one or future loved one
"drop pop candy" by Reol. it's japanese and part of it may have been vocaloid, but it's a classic in my book for songs about admiring and love from afar
by bikinksterboy
Sat Sep 16, 2017 5:51 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: How comfortable are you with your genitals?
Replies: 6
Views: 5890

Re: How comfortable are you with your genitals?

to add on to my previous post, I also cover up around other people at home, but that's more a function of their attitudes around genitals than mine

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